Age

[Pearls]

Yes that old question ?
Do you worry about getting older in this scene?
When we started I was a young hottie at 30 ? now I’m looking like granny grimbles and thinking am I too old for all this, it’s also annoying that his nibs is younger and still looks 30 ? just why in it?
Over to you ?

 

[Deleted member 11852]

I still think age is just a number.. It makes no difference how old you are.. If you enjoy this lifestyle then you can still have just as much naughty fun whatever age you are.. Age is something that comes to all of us.. What I'm noticing when you meet people of the more mature age is that's its not jump on the bed and go at it like a bull in a china shop.. As you get older you enjoy the sensations of a meet more because its slower and more enjoyable.. Well that's speaking from personal experiences we have had.. I know everyone looks for different things in a meet but on a personal level for us we prefer meeting older people.. That's nothing personal against anyone younger in this lifestyle there's some very sexy people on here who let's be honest probably wouldn't want to meet anyone of our age anyway.. . We enjoy the social side of it too.. I think it's like anything in life.. It's all about personal preferences.. If you enjoy something then why stop,, keep doing it.. Why should age stop you.. After all this lifestyle has plenty of people of all ages.. W.. ??

 

[MP386]

Yes that old question ?
Do you worry about getting older in this scene?
When we started I was a young hottie at 30 ? now I’m looking like granny grimbles and thinking am I too old for all this, it’s also annoying that his nibs is younger and still looks 30 ? just why in it?
Over to you ?

If your old I’m ancient….yes it’s a worry but if everything is still working and there’s someone who thinks I’m good enough to … then I’ll continue….
Well unless I get lucky and someone actually wants me for more than my body ????????

 

[MP386]

Yes that old question ?
Do you worry about getting older in this scene?
When we started I was a young hottie at 30 ? now I’m looking like granny grimbles and thinking am I too old for all this, it’s also annoying that his nibs is younger and still looks 30 ? just why in it?
Over to you ?

Granny Grimbles ? pictures to prove ?

 

[Tiger]

Indeed, age is just a number, you’re as young as the person you feel

 

[CocoDD]

I would say all women worry at some point. Men have always aged better even with wrinkles and grey hair but us, we seem to cover them up and panic when every line appear. We just have to accept the process and hope others do. ?

 

[Pearls]

I would say all women worry at some point. Men have always aged better even with wrinkles and grey hair but us, we seem to cover them up and panic when every line appear. We just have to accept the process and hope others do. ?

Good point, I would say some men look better with age ?

 

[Skippy01]

Absolutely not worried! The cougars rock up anywhere and are knee deep in hot young cock every weekend.I can't wait ?? x

 

[fincon]

Yes that old question ?
Do you worry about getting older in this scene?
When we started I was a young hottie at 30 ? now I’m looking like granny grimbles and thinking am I too old for all this, it’s also annoying that his nibs is younger and still looks 30 ? just why in it?
Over to you ?

I know there’s the old “age is just a number” answer.

My only problem with that is “well, yes, but when one number’s two or three times as big as the other…”

To be honest, yes, my getting older would bother me… if I was still genuinely active in the scene. I’m not, so it doesn’t. Not much anyway.

But yeah, as a single M, who was always honest about my age, I was very much more than aware that every birthday took me out of the search criteria for women looking for fellas.

Vanishingly few women and couples set their lower age preferences older than I was, but many, many, many set their upper age at a number I soon approached… and passed.

Most people have their preferences - whether it’s age, size, race… - and no-one has the right to tell others that their preferences are wrong… but age is the obvious search restriction on many sites,

So, yeah, if I was still actively on the scene, I know that there would be far, far fewer looking for (or would be happy with) a single fella in his mid-50s, than a bloke 10, 15, or 20 years younger.

 

[fincon]

It makes no difference how old you are.... ??

it’s lovely that you feel like that, but my experience as a single M over the past couple of decades is: that view is very very much the minority opinion amount couples, and vanishingly rare among single women.

 

[Tiger]

I’d just like to add, the fantastic thing about social swinging is that it’s not driven by a search criteria!

You get to know the people for who they are, the good, the bad and the so in that respect it brilliant.

Let’s say you got chatting with someone and you click, you have the same sense of humour, they tick all your boxes, however your 1 month out of their age range! On any other side you wouldn’t have even got to chat to them, They would’ve dismissed you without a second thought.

Tiger xx

 

[fincon]

I’d just like to add, the fantastic thing about social swinging is that it’s not driven by a search criteria!

You get to know the people for who they are, the good, the bad and the so in that respect it brilliant.

Let’s say you got chatting with someone and you click, you have the same sense of humour, they tick all your boxes, however your 1 month out of their age range! On any other side you wouldn’t have even got to chat to them, They would’ve dismissed you without a second thought.

Tiger xx

Ah, but let’s say it’s not one month but a decade and a half… same ’nothing’s changed’?

 

[Tiger]

Ah, but let’s say it’s not one month but a decade and a half… same ’nothing’s changed’?

Yes nothing has changed, regardless of if it’s a 15 day or 15 year difference as long as you’re all aware and you both like each other age is Irrelevant, as long as morally, ethically and legally you’re not breaking any laws there shouldn’t be an issue.

What I’m trying to say is, it’s the people not their age that’s important!

 

[fincon]

Yes nothing has changed, regardless of if it’s a 15 day or 15 year difference as long as you’re all aware and you both like each other age is Irrelevant, as long as morally, ethically and legally you’re not breaking any laws there shouldn’t be an issue.

What I’m trying to say is, it’s the people not their age that’s important!

I completely agree… in principle.

I’m not as convinced in practice, tbh.

I mean, if a 35 year yr old woman and i hit it off, whether in or out of the scene)I think the main reaction from people I know (apart from ‘have you checked she’s not actually insane?’) would be ‘great, delighted for you both’

If an 18 year old and I hit it off, someone I’d actyially be old enough to be their grandfather… (leaving aside the cultural differences, which have always been the main ‘huh?’ When I’ve seen much younger women) I think people would understandably wonder what the hell was going on there…

 

[Guru G]

Shagging a milf is on my bucket list

 

[Deleted member 19022]

I still think age is just a number.. It makes no difference how old you are.. If you enjoy this lifestyle then you can still have just as much naughty fun whatever age you are.. Age is something that comes to all of us.. What I'm noticing when you meet people of the more mature age is that's its not jump on the bed and go at it like a bull in a china shop.. As you get older you enjoy the sensations of a meet more because its slower and more enjoyable.. Well that's speaking from personal experiences we have had.. I know everyone looks for different things in a meet but on a personal level for us we prefer meeting older people.. That's nothing personal against anyone younger in this lifestyle there's some very sexy people on here who let's be honest probably wouldn't want to meet anyone of our age anyway.. . We enjoy the social side of it too.. I think it's like anything in life.. It's all about personal preferences.. If you enjoy something then why stop,, keep doing it.. Why should age stop you.. After all this lifestyle has plenty of people of all ages.. W.. ??

As a bloke who's almost 61 I think that my age will put people off. We all now about the sites that block you just because of age. Not willing to chat or get to know a person. I'm almost bald overweight and old. Does that mean my sex drive has deserted me, not at all. I actually believe that I might be a better lover now than 30 years ago. With age comes knowledge and understanding that your partner or couples if your lucky enough, need to enjoy the whole experience as well. Not a case of knock this one out and get down the pub with me mates, and see what's available.
I've stayed with this site, even though I took time out for personal reasons as people are friendly, very welcoming and non judgemental. I'm looking forward to the socials with no expectations apart from meeting nice people and having a good time.

 

[Deleted member 11852]

As a bloke who's almost 61 I think that my age will put people off. We all now about the sites that block you just because of age. Not willing to chat or get to know a person. I'm almost bald overweight and old. Does that mean my sex drive has deserted me, not at all. I actually believe that I might be a better lover now than 30 years ago. With age comes knowledge and understanding that your partner or couples if your lucky enough, need to enjoy the whole experience as well. Not a case of knock this one out and get down the pub with me mates, and see what's available.
I've stayed with this site, even though I took time out for personal reasons as people are friendly, very welcoming and non judgemental. I'm looking forward to the socials with no expectations apart from meeting nice people and having a good time.

I don’t think your age will put people off at all, it’s about who you are as a person. I know people can be judgemental but that’s their problem. You come across as a great guy, funny but nuts lol. The socials will be great for getting to know people. xxx M ?

 

[Deleted member 19022]

I don’t think your age will put people off at all, it’s about who you are as a person. I know people can be judgemental but that’s their problem. You come across as a great guy, funny but nuts lol. The socials will be great for getting to know people. xxx M ?

Well I'll definitely be bringing my nuts to the socials ??

 

[MP386]

Well I'll definitely be bringing my nuts to the socials ??

To much information ?

 

[Deleted member 11852]

Well I'll definitely be bringing my nuts to the socials ??

You go for it xxx M

 

[Deleted member 10361]

I’ve always felt old, so not worried about it, more worried that I’ve had no fun for over a year & will be too knackered to enjoy it when I get some ?

 

[Deleted member 11852]

I’ve always felt old, so not worried about it, more worried that I’ve had no fun for over a year & will be too knackered to enjoy it when I get some ?

I'm sure there's plenty on here that can help with that.. Including us... W.. ??

 

[MP386]

I’ve always felt old, so not worried about it, more worried that I’ve had no fun for over a year & will be too knackered to enjoy it when I get some ?

There will be volunteers a plenty to give you some ?

 

[Lips_Pearls]

Yes that old question ?
Do you worry about getting older in this scene?
When we started I was a young hottie at 30 ? now I’m looking like granny grimbles and thinking am I too old for all this, it’s also annoying that his nibs is younger and still looks 30 ? just why in it?
Over to you ?

Get away with ya. xx

Nah, I think it's a good thing actually in one sense.
You definitely become more comfortable with yourself and more comfortable around others I'd say.

 

[Pearls]

Get away with ya. xx

Nah, I think it's a good thing actually in one sense.
You definitely become more comfortable with yourself and more comfortable around others I'd say.

I get less comfortable with every pound and wrinkle ???