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I don't know about the rest of you naughty sexy people but on a personal level for me Mr h the last 2 years has proved how short life is.. We have all lost loved ones and friends and we definitely all know someone who has sadly passed away with this pandemic... It definitely makes you think about the short time we are here.. So this proves to me that you need to have as much fun as you can and that definitely means at least attempting to meet new people this year.. Life is too short for regrets.. All I need to do is get over being paranoid about my looks and size and just get on with meeting some more sexy people.. W... ??
I completely agree with you.... Here are my ramblings:-
Since recent events (COVID pandemic, Russia/Ukraine) I have been thinking about life in general.
I think people are worrying too much about things that we as individuals can’t control, which stops us being happy. We rely too heavily on the media feeding us negativity.
I also think we have all fallen into the trap of materialism, we always think we want/should have the latest and greatest gadget/car/house (delete as appropriate). When we get these things, are we truly any happier? I think perhaps only briefly with the joy of getting the object then that goes away.
This in turn means we spend money on things we don’t need to spend on, which causes stress and then unhappiness.
I think instead we should wake up in the morning and be happy that we have another day to enjoy life on this beautiful planet. I am personally going to try (although difficult for me because sometimes I get depressed) live life to the absolute full and enjoy every moment.
I am going to try and reduce my materialism and not buy new things when they first come out, or buy more cars. Instead, I am going try and invest in things that can help my (and family) overall enjoyment, such as holidays enjoying this fantastic country by going to places that our family can enjoy & generally trying to have a good time.
I am also going to stop watching the news and news feeds on the internet (where possible).
Do you agree? What do you think you need to change in your life?
The thing about looks is, there will always be someone who things you are beautiful and someone who thinks you are not.
You can't change that.
If someone calls you fat and you lose weight, then someone will say you are too skinny.
Someone will always think you are too tall or too short or too dark or too light.
Only pay attention to those who like you.
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what if I said, there isn’t someone who hasn’t got an issue with how they look especially swingers. Just remember everyone is in the same boat with something and all are equal when it comes to that first meet.
I’ve said it before, confidence building comes from, not just listening to others but with each other and as a partnership you won’t feel anything better than your partner showing this. The only way to make me feel good is my husband telling me, knowing he’s flirting with me.
This scene is so full of bullshit, you will never meet an honest swinger, they don’t exist, you’ll have the ones that flirt but have no intention of meeting you,that knocks confidence, everyone may be beautiful but we all have personal attractions, we can’t all fancy each other and expect to meet just because we’re swingers.
Having security of a regular meet makes you feel good but with that can trap you with emotions that you don’t want to get entangled with and we are human so it can happen, it can also work with an opposite effect,
Just remember if both parties want to meet then you are all meeting for the first time with all the same nerves. You will know if they genuinely want to meet you or they’re just meeting to get that notch, it’s easy to judge.
There are so many experiences waiting, just don’t over think and get going ??X
Total newbies and have zero experience or expectations. Would love to try a club night just to see if this is best left as a fantasy or something we will both enjoy. Would love to meet some bi couples and see where that takes us
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Room for a little one ??? (Ok, I may have exaggerated saying little lol) xx ??
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My plans for
My swinging plans for the immediate future were to make more use of a separate living area I have over my apartment to meet new swinging friends, try new things which are on my bucket list and repeat things which I love to do. However, I'm not overly keen on "one-offs," though they do have their place, I prefer on-going friendships. A friendship isn't a true friendship in the absence of mutual respect, and respect is absolutely essential for a good swinging experience (for me). So while I could offer accommodation, I risk attracting people only interested in a free holiday and/or one-offs. However while I was thinking about that (and not actually doing anything!) this damn war started and I ended up offering the place to Ukrainian refugees. They need kindness, respect, friendship, help and somewhere to live more than I need to swing.
My future plans around swinging are on hiatus for the foreseeable future due to some major changes in my personal life ? At the moment I’m winging it and taking every day as it comes ?