People You Know

[Deleted member 3411]

Having mentioned something in a chat earlier this week I started thinking about how many I know in my everyday life who swing or are into BDSM. When I was a teenager my friend's Mum and Dad were (although I only found out they were later), my ex's friend is into S&M, and some friends I had in the 80s were swingers. Having mused over how many I know who like the alternative lifestyle I thought about a woman I've been talking to through Facebook. She is of German extraction though living here for many decades. When I asked her where she swung she said only back in Germany on business trips because my daughter swings here in England.
So here is a question for you who do you know personally that is a swinger? Family member close friend, work colleague? I'm not talking people you know through this site and other activities I'm talking your neighbour sister excetera. No need to name names I'm just curious because from my viewpoint this lifestyle isn't so unusual.

 

[Pearls]

Interesting thread and it will be good to hear what people have to say

 

[Marky191268]

Was having this kind of conversation today, about how someone would feel shocked seeing a friend, family member, work colleague at a swing club. The 3 of us all agreed if you are at a swing club you are there for fun. Personally would love to see my boss there.. Hey boss about that pay rise

 

[Pearls]

@Admin and I did go to a social event once and while at the bar we heard a familiar voice, he turned around and it was our financial adviser... Oops

 

[Admin]

We bumped into our ex-financial advisor at a swinging social.. I was cool with it until later in the evening I had a text off him suggesting we ring him if we fancied a 3sum.

 

[Admin]

@Admin and I did go to a social event once and while at the bar we heard a familiar voice, he turned around and it was our financial adviser... Oops

lol... uncanny.
No we weren't discussing our replies either as we're both busy doing different things

 

[Pearls]

lol... uncanny.
No we weren't discussing our replies either as we're both busy doing different things

In tune xx

 

[Marky191268]

We bumped into our ex-financial advisor at a swinging social.. I was cool with it until later in the evening I had a text off him suggesting we ring him if we fancied a 3sum.

And did you ring lol

 

[Scrunchy&Muffet]

A parent in the school playground. Let's just say know I got glances were exchanged but that's all. Discretion is my middle name lol xxxx

 

[Admin]

And did you ring lol

No.

A parent in the school playground. Let's just say know I got glances were exchanged but that's all. Discretion is my middle name lol xxxx

oooer I say. x

 

[Mootje]

We bumped into our ex-financial advisor at a swinging social.. I was cool with it until later in the evening I had a text off him suggesting we ring him if we fancied a 3sum.

HAHAHAHAHA, here goes the Fees hehehehehehe

 

[Pearls]

HAHAHAHAHA, here goes the Fees hehehehehehe

Tell us about it, we changed not long after that xx

 

[Mootje]

Well, The Village Doctor, in Netherlands, to be specific lol, is a swinger, but i can't really say I know her that well LOL..

 

[Mootje]

Tell us about it, we changed not long after that xx

hehehehe, Oh Pearls i know wat u mean LOL

 

[Admin]

Well, The Village Doctor, in Netherlands, to be specific lol, is a swinger, but i can't really say I know her that well LOL..

Yet! Be optimistic man.

 

[meet_the_fockers]

Two nurses both messaged us on another site..
one worked on my actual ward.. she sent the same face pic as she uses, on her fbook account.
Yes we are freinds on there..
she left not long after.

 

[Mootje]

Yet! Be optimistic man.

Oh Btw i might need your help both of you uh huh next week i am in Holland so stay tuned to help your buddy mOot eh LOL

 

[Pearls]

hehehehe, Oh Pearls i know wat u mean LOL

I wouldn't have trusted him after that xx

 

[Scrunchy&Muffet]

Two nurses both messaged us on another site..
one worked on my actual ward.. she sent the same face pic as she uses, on her fbook account.
Yes we are freinds on there..
she left not long after.

Ooooh lol awkward xxxx

 

[Mootje]

I wouldn't have trusted him after that xx

I agree and i do hear you and see you Princess XXX

 

[zebo]

A village near me used to have the reputation of being a swingers paradise, no idea if it was or not but there was an abundance of pampas grass in a lot of the gardens

 

[Pearls]

A village near me used to have the reputation of being a swingers paradise, no idea if it was or not but there was an abundance of pampas grass in a lot of the gardens

Dirty ole sod

 

[Lovernotfighter]

A village near me used to have the reputation of being a swingers paradise, no idea if it was or not but there was an abundance of pampas grass in a lot of the gardens

Ohh the pampas grass in the front garden i still remember the first time someone told me that myth

 

[Mootje]

A village near me used to have the reputation of being a swingers paradise, no idea if it was or not but there was an abundance of pampas grass in a lot of the gardens

Ok so do u know the Pampas grass hahahaha Zeebly LOVE YOU n MISS YOU

 

[Crezy]

A village near me used to have the reputation of being a swingers paradise, no idea if it was or not but there was an abundance of pampas grass in a lot of the gardens

is there something about that grass then?