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NigelandJulie
This question came to mind after answering another forum post, so you invite others into your home or are invited into someone's home thus being basically strangers in someones home or yours, whats your thoughts?
True but I can't see any other way to do it and hopefully that first coffee will of taken away some of the nerves and put each somewhat at ease.@Lovernotfighter ok you met them the previous week for a couple of hours socially say, but you still dont really know them.
Yes it's a hell of a risk of course. As @Pearls said, we have been lucky to know friends who've come here, very well and the trust is there.Guess it's a risk we all take, and hopefully you make the right decision based on your gut feeling.There must be times when it has gone wrong though, and what procedures if any do you put in place if they do? Someone out there must have some stories when things have not gone to plan and how you dealt with it?
Ok im sure ive done this tale before somewhere..Guess it's a risk we all take, and hopefully you make the right decision based on your gut feeling.There must be times when it has gone wrong though, and what procedures if any do you put in place if they do? Someone out there must have some stories when things have not gone to plan and how you dealt with it?
Yeah that's just not how to behave or conduct yourself.. She is lucky you are who you are.. If she went to someone else's place who is that way inclined, she'd be telling a different story now and would simply be another statistic...Ok im sure ive done this tale before somewhere..
Got chatting to a lady .. seemed lovely didnt chat a lot..
But she said she would love to come over for a drink maybe, hit a club with us.
Ok fine..
Anyway the evening arrived.. i heard a car come flying and i mean flying up music blaring and stop outside the house. Surely not i thought but.. hey love music her perogative i thought.
Ok open the door to this beautiful woman.. in a red dress. Stunning.
Ok would you like a drink.. yes would you like another yess.. another..can i have another i brought malibu..
You are very lovely but you look a lot younger than you claim to be.. oh i am.. if i tell people im under 30 they wont meet me.. hmm she was tipsy and in no state to drive dilema..
Ok can we go to the club now. Please.
Ok.. arrives at club.. spent the evening watching her.. and fending off many guys she was clearly drunk, refused to leave and throwing herself around... like a ballet dancer on wizz.
Anyway eventually got her into a taxi, and back to ours.
Mr F carried her upstairs and threw her in the spare bed.
Ok moral of the story.. we spent the evening looking after this girl.
Anything could have happened to her..
And really anything could have happened at our house.. if we where that way inclined... so a bad meet??
More a lesson learnt...
Hmm i guess we could have just left her in the club... she was a nightmare.. but felt responsible for her.Yeah that's just not how to behave or conduct yourself.. She is lucky you are who you are.. If she went to someone else's place who is that way inclined, she'd be telling a different story now and would simply be another statistic...
Was tempting... Im joking.. xxx@meet_the_fockers Hats off to you both for looking after her which obviously ruined your own night out and as you said anything could have happened to her, especially if drunk xx
Harlot xWas tempting... Im joking.. xxx
Indeed hey.. wonder if her knickers matched her dress ommmmHarlot x
You and Niger would be more than welcome in our home xxx@Lovernotfighter ok you met them the previous week for a couple of hours socially say, but you still dont really know them.
That's actually very fantastic to hear.... Amazing..Shortly after joining the site we got chatty with a couple not in the sense of anything sexual by the way however to cut a long story short they invited us to their house for a social chat.
We were amassed that a couple would show us such trust they made us very welcome and gave us some fantastic advice we made two great friends that night. Would we have the same confidence I'd like to think so after getting to know them through chatting.
coupled with the fact that this site is well monitored and you get a feel for people by their posts etc hope this makes sense lew
We in UK, don't do home visits or receive them, should we swing here. It would be a hotel full stop. Spain, is a different culture, and it's never been an issue, we are normally naked on our terrace, drinking wine, and TBH. It's never been an issue, but to be fair, we know our visitors in Spain, and if not, we do very soon lol !!!This question came to mind after answering another forum post, so you invite others into your home or are invited into someone's home thus being basically strangers in someones home or yours, whats your thoughts?