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Hey look am sorry to bring you all down, was just interested in how you respond after, the lady when i talked to her at a social seemed ok Just made me think differently and be far more cautious.... xxxxx
Hey look am sorry to bring you all down,
But the thing is.. A firm friendship is usually forged before we meet.
A firm friendship is usually forged before we meet. We also have freinds on the scene, who we only meet socially.....
Yes, that's a good way of doing things - for us. (imho)
I am constantly surprised by how many selfish, brutish and down right nasty men there are out there. I imagine these are the guys that don't actually like women... I wish I knew what the answer was, it makes me so angry... It can be summed up in one word RESPECT... so vital.Yes Sarah for sure and my attitude was the same as yours, but alas, hers was indifferent, and I guess you have to respect that, some people, even thou it was a terrible experience, choose silence over drama...
Also i must add, i had only just met her, i don't know if she thought she was going dogging and it all got out of hand or that it was what she said.
The point I got from it, is safety as a single female in the world of meets with strangers is paramount. personal safety has to be built into your own actions, like having friends you call or txt to say your ok at the beginning and end of the sexual encounter. Also admin wisely said a trigger word for "help get me out of here", having some kinda tag to your location via google may also help especially if on the move. xxx
I am constantly surprised by how many selfish, brutish and down right nasty men there are out there. I imagine these are the guys that don't actually like women... I wish I knew what the answer was, it makes me so angry... It can be summed up in one word RESPECT... so vital.
Surely there is potential for singles on singles swinging just to be mini sex dates? I've always been a little gent on any dates I've had, I see no difference why swinging as a single should be anything other! x
Until after the meet has ended? So after its ended, do you cut all ties? No punThink I treat sex as a connection. After such an intimate act, why should the intimacy end so quickly? I tickle, laugh, converse with the person until the meet has ended.
Ahh I see, you know how bloody nosey, I am!I like the fb scenario so that would all depend on the mutual agreement and how well it went.
I hear ya there m'dear.....I'm sure dudes will not admit to this but it happens to us poor sods as well......it stinksYes for sure and each should have an open communication on there needs and desires. But as a woman single, sometimes you just feel like a sex dolly.... I realise that swinging is not dating, but out of the 5 liaisons Ive encountered, 3 of them left me feeling a little used... At least find out if i got home ok lol!! Maybe my expectations are to hi, and being treated like a real person is to much to ask....
I think you've just had bad luck with the people you've met hon. It doesn't matter if it's just a one night fling or an ongoing arrangement, showing a bit of decency isn't difficult. A call or text to make sure you got home ok isn't too much to ask. After all it's the right thing to do.So how do you treat your new meet/friend after the excitment?
We spend time sussing out, new potential people, you would like to play with. Txting, talking, looking... communicating, the excitement builds. You meet its ok, great, amazing!! Then??
Not all men are assholes .Absolutely agreed Yardman
All comes back to ladies liking the so called bad boys. LolNo, no we're not. Sadly too many ladies seem to tar us all with the same brush. But we're all not the same my friend.
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