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4 July 2017
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2,654
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@DiamondJoe
How far do you travel for a good meet :whistle::D
I am staggeringly lazy tbh.

I make 80% of people come to me. I've had callers from London, Brighton, Cardiff, Exeter and one from Bolton. This is mostly because I don't drive, and also because I'm lazy.

However, I do sometimes travel for work, typically to London for a few days at a time, in which case I'll set up shop in an apartment and see who comes calling.

But I'm not, generally, up for long treks into the wilderness to find a shag.

Too lazy :)
 
4 July 2017
4,745
2,654
City
Glastonbury
I am staggeringly lazy tbh.

An exception: found this young pervert and we liked the look of each other so much I decided to meet him half way. He lives in south Somerset and I'm central. Neither of us drive.

We agree to meet in Yeovil where I get the train to London. Waved off from the station on the requisite train... go to the next station along, get off. Get a bus back to Yeovil and meet my man.

On the way back I had to do the whole thing in reverse; so get the bus from Yeovil to Sherborne, rejoin the correct London train and then back to Yeovil at the right time.

Only problem was, after the chap & I left the Airbnb and went to the bus station to get some brunch, we were sitting together in the Weatherspoons and my next door neighbours, with kid unexpectedly say "Hello! Thought that was you! What are you doing here...?"

Fuck.

So. Bit of a faff. Very hot fucking btw.
 
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Sammy

Lucky people. I found it was difficult when in a couple, to find others that were attractive to both of us.

X

I think ultimately this is crooks for many

Its difficult as swingle as you know as you might be hugely attracted to one part of the couple and not the other

Also people can offer and you are not attracted to neither

It's about getting the right fit for all involved

Alternatively you might be hugely attracted to the couple online etc when you meet that may not be there face to face
Or their idea of great sex maybe your worst nightmare

It's a complicated lifestyle
Sx
 
5 July 2016
5,740
9,823
City
Ossett
I think ultimately this is crooks for many

Its difficult as swingle as you know as you might be hugely attracted to one part of the couple and not the other

Also people can offer and you are not attracted to neither

It's about getting the right fit for all involved

Alternatively you might be hugely attracted to the couple online etc when you meet that may not be there face to face
Or their idea of great sex maybe your worst nightmare

It's a complicated lifestyle
Sx

I think this is so true @Sammy. Especially when both travelling hundreds of miles for a meet. It's actually much more difficult than what Vanillas may think.

It's just not as simple as some may think. It's not a meat market, where people line up and you get to pick your fave (if I'm wrong let me know and show me the line :sneaky:).
No it's a very intricate dance of getting to know people, flirting, socialising, laughing, arranging meets etc (y)

X
 
S

Sammy

I think this is so true @Sammy. Especially when both travelling hundreds of miles for a meet. It's actually much more difficult than what Vanillas may think.

It's just not as simple as some may think. It's not a meat market, where people line up and you get to pick your fave (if I'm wrong let me know and show me the line :sneaky:).
No it's a very intricate dance of getting to know people, flirting, socialising, laughing, arranging meets etc (y)

X

Totally agree Balders
I'm sure there some who are happy with any Port in the storm ... not for me Sx