Bdsm And Swinging

[Deleted member 10827]

We might have the odd implement or three or maybe more associated with BDSM

 

[Antogs]

I have a rapidly expanding huge array of (mostly brand new, unused) kit at my disposal.
Sorry to say that at this precise moment the biggest thrill I'm getting from it is my continual re-arranging of it and "sorting it out" in readiness. I live in hope (well, Nottingham actually, but it's not far from hope )

And I now have a plan which, if I'm lucky enough to be given the chance to put into action, could lead to a night of incredible BDSM debauchery and bliss
:spank::spankin::doggy::smackpaddle::surprise::lashes::bondage_buddy::bj1::mwah::beer::devil::collar:

Antogs xx

 

[Pearls]

Then leave it to me. you have some things to do anyway, so leave the worrying to me. xx

See, I ran a bath and got @Pearls lingerie out earlier all ready for her, even did her chores for her this evening so she has nothing to do tonight apart from her own little thing and then help make me with some things later, you know, to relieve the tension... x

Do I have a list?

 

[Lips_Pearls]

Do I have a list?

Not at present but can be arranged x

 

[Deleted member 11094]

After going to a munch recently -
I know a lot of people that stay away from swing events and the swing community. I had not met anyone who crossover until I joined here. I pick up on something that feels like a kind of invisible division between the two communities and wondered what other people's experiences were around this area?


I think it is fab when they crossover, and it is great to meet swingsters.

 

[Therapon]

After going to a munch recently -
I know a lot of people that stay away from swing events and the swing community. I had not met anyone who crossover until I joined here. I pick up on something that feels like a kind of invisible division between the two communities and wondered what other people's experiences were around this area?


I think it is fab when they crossover, and it is great to meet swingsters.

Yes I've come up against thing myself at both the Chester and Liverpool munches but there are a few like us (Therlegs) who are happy to crossover whenever we feel like it. As I said up there ^^^^ some clubs have bdsm kit and we have used it. So the clubs recognise the crossover it's just the die hards in either camp that don't agree but that's up to them.

 

[Deleted member 11094]

Yes I've come up against thing myself at both the Chester and Liverpool munches but there are a few like us (Therlegs) who are happy to crossover whenever we feel like it. As I said up there ^^^^ some clubs have bdsm kit and we have used it. So the clubs recognise the crossover it's just the die hards in either camp that don't agree but that's up to them.

That makes sense

 

[Ahabs]

Don't even get me started on how the 'best most experienced doms' prefer to play with new young subs all for the subs safety of course.

Yup, I've seen this also, or at events where as a guy I attend with a female friend who wants to experience BDSM and being a sub, and the house Dom decides as its his "house" on of the "rules" of her submission is to do his bidding, including shagging him. Ofcourse. Like he's entitled to her and she's obligated to follow the instruction of this stranger she's never met.
But lets not forget, according to them this has nothing to do with sex/swinging.

 

[Therapon]

But lets not forget, according to them this has nothing to do with sex/swinging.

Yes always amuses me that phrase, oh and the Master Dom, usual in their 20's, yeah right.

 

[Ahabs]

Yes always amuses me that phrase, oh and the Master Dom, usual in their 20's, yeah right.

Ofcourse, its so easy to be a master dom (in all the kinks) by age 23 on the side with all the school work and socialising normal kids grow up with. Plenty of time.

 

[Pearls]

I don't see the issue in mixing and matching

 

[Captain-Smith-and-Lady-Jane]

After going to a munch recently -
I know a lot of people that stay away from swing events and the swing community. I had not met anyone who crossover until I joined here. I pick up on something that feels like a kind of invisible division between the two communities and wondered what other people's experiences were around this area?


I think it is fab when they crossover, and it is great to meet swingsters.

We've been kind of crossing over ourselves, though in the opposite direction, and dipping our toes into the local bdsm/kink community. It's fascinating, and they seem fascinated by us (I don't thing they've met any actual swingers before) but the different social psychology is taking us a bit of time to get our heads round.

 

[Stew]

We've been kind of crossing over ourselves, though in the opposite direction, and dipping our toes into the local bdsm/kink community. It's fascinating, and they seem fascinated by us (I don't thing they've met any actual swingers before) but the different social psychology is taking us a bit of time to get our heads round.

Think of it as swinging without the polite banter lol !!

 

[Captain-Smith-and-Lady-Jane]

Think of it as swinging without the polite banter lol !!

Lol! That were quite familiar (and comfortable) with; its the polite banter we find hard!
No, what we have trouble getting to grips with is the amount of sexuality without actual sex, groups without groupies, and everyone talking about sexual freedom while trying so hard to cram themselves into ever smaller pigeonholes.

 

[Lips_Pearls]

Lol! That were quite familiar (and comfortable) with; its the polite banter we find hard!
No, what we have trouble getting to grips with is the amount of sexuality without actual sex, groups without groupies, and everyone talking about sexual freedom while trying so hard to cram themselves into ever smaller pigeonholes.

I agree. The kink side of things is all about sex, but be damned if you intend on having any.
This is why I/we believe there’s a great line that blurs between the two.
The shallower ends of the spectrum indeed, but doable.

 

[Captain-Smith-and-Lady-Jane]

I agree. The kink side of things is all about sex, but be damned if you intend on having any.
This is why I/we believe there’s a great line that blurs between the two.
The shallower ends of the spectrum indeed, but doable.

I think in truth the "darker depths" have less to do with sex and more to do with psychology, which is interesting but not what what we're there for anyway.
I think of it like the ocean; most fish, and almost all the beautiful ones, live in the shallows; but the depths are dark and the residents tend to have a lot if teeth.

 

[Stew]

Lol! That were quite familiar (and comfortable) with; its the polite banter we find hard!
No, what we have trouble getting to grips with is the amount of sexuality without actual sex, groups without groupies, and everyone talking about sexual freedom while trying so hard to cram themselves into ever smaller pigeonholes.

Free the pigeon , kinky fuckery is all about the journey to successful satisfaction !!