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Thank you, that's so nice of you to say so xx
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Most welcome mate.Thank you, that's so nice of you to say so xx
As you know, we're strong advocates of BDSM and swinging. The fact is, the two can crossover. They can meet.
Perhaps not the furthest end of the spectrum's but the two definitely can meet, after all, don't we all enjoy a little kinky times anyway?
(some of us more than others of course)
Why not be swinging and BDSM/Kinky friendly too?
It's good fun if kept honest, clean and without crossing boundaries.
Your thoughts?
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Exactly this, seen it myselfmind you that didn't stop them instructing a sub to suck their cock and even sharing subs.
Exactly this, seen it myself![]()
Here's a post I put on another site:
I've always thought that there is a very strong crossover between BDSM and swinging but the BDSM 'Scene' do tend to look down their noses at swingers.
I remember the parties at Ceasars Nightclub in Balsall Common, there was a very definite divide. One of the issues I saw was the one of consent with a lot of the swingers not understanding the concept of power exchange. Then there were the purist BDSM'ers who'd insist that BDSM wasn't about sex, mind you that didn't stop them instructing a sub to suck their cock and even sharing subs.
It used to be a great weekend away. Ceasars Friday night followed by the Midlands (BDSM) munch Saturday afternoon and the BBB Sunday.
Agreed. We do try so very hard to be all inclusive and we’re advocates of single gents. But we’re also acutely aware of how it can be away from here - for single gents in all of this.BDSM and Swinging seem to be absolutely ideal bedfellows (pun intended)
At their best both "activities" attract open-minded, sexually secure intelligent people.
The matter of trust is paramount in both BDSM and Swinging.
It is the norm for partners in both disciplines (another pun intended) to have sex with people outside of their relationship which more often than not has a very positive effect on not only the sex lives of the couple but with the relationship itself.
My background is one of BDSM but, for me personally, I have over time drifted more towards the swinging side of things as that's where I started to feel most comfortable. .Mainly because I didn't have a partner with which to indulge my, pretty innocent by most standards, BDSM tendencies. And in my own personal experience, it's can be even more awkward being a single guy in a Fetish environment than it is in a Swinging environment.
I think a lot of us forget how horrible, for single guys in particular, it can be away from the loving embrace of SocialSwinging.Com![]()
I have occasionally dabbled, I do enjoy a bit of slap and tickle... but the whole nine yards...As you know, we're strong advocates of BDSM and swinging. The fact is, the two can crossover. They can meet.
Perhaps not the furthest end of the spectrum's but the two definitely can meet, after all, don't we all enjoy a little kinky times anyway?
(some of us more than others of course)
Why not be swinging and BDSM/Kinky friendly too?
It's good fun if kept honest, clean and without crossing boundaries.
Your thoughts?
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We know.I do enjoy a bit of slap and tickle
I hear you. Sometimes (and remember, I built anchor points into the wall) you just want to get to it and fuck senseless - no bells & whistles....too much faff.
Sorry.
Exactly.We know.
I hear you. Sometimes (and remember, I built anchor points into the wall) you just want to get to it and fuck senseless - no bells & whistles.![]()
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Is that a yes thenExactly.
I'm just a simple country boy with simple country tastes. Nuffink too fancy, mister
Bought what?We bought one off ebay to try, only a small kit but I have to say mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm S xxxxxx
Bought what?
I may have missed a few posts![]()
Oh I say! You need to take some picsHahah no its me! We bought a little BDSM kit off ebay to try out, ooooffffff me like very much! S xxxx
Oh I say! You need to take some pics![]()
That would be great, we could do with some BDSM photos in the galleryWe tried it out Saturday, ooooffffff and completely forgot to take a pic, I shall rectify that very shortly! S xxxx