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Steed99

Steed99

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The Vanilla Alternative has been holding a monthly male orientated Bi-Night since November and I have been at them all as part of the staff team. It would seem that many couples that include a bi male, also have a lady that thoroughly enjoys the attention of other bi guys, and having some threesome fun. There are also many single ladies that visit specially to socialise and have fun with bi guys and t-girls. This lifestyle we all enjoy takes many different forms, so it's nice to have places where people can express their individual sexuality in a friendly environment without judgement.
 
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young&hung

I'm a bi guy and I wish more people in my generation would be more open about their sexuality and not give a shit about what others think or may think. I know 'straight' guys who have been sucked off by a guy, you can't put a label on who you like and what you like anymore, as long as we're not hurting anyone and enjoying ourselves and each other, who's to judge and question other peoples lives x
 
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Admin

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young&hung said:
I'm a bi guy and I wish more people in my generation would be more open about their sexuality and not give a shit about what others think or may think. I know 'straight' guys who have been sucked off by a guy, you can't put a label on who you like and what you like anymore, as long as we're not hurting anyone and enjoying ourselves and each other, who's to judge and question other peoples lives x
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Exactly..(y) In the end, does it really matter? Christ we're here for such a short time. Live life and love it. :)
 
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MickeyBlueBalls

I use biodiesel in my car. Does that make me bi? :)

Seriously though I don't have an issue with it. At the end of the day when there's a group of hot sweaty bods going at it those with poorer eyesight may "misjudge" their aim and "oops did I just poke you with mine" may happen.
My ex used to love bi fellas.
 
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Brumcouple2013

Brumcouple2013

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This is a very interesting thread.

Until the start of this year I would have considered myself straight but comfortable in the presence of a bi male. Mrs Brum did open up one evening and say it would turn her on to see me suck another mans cock and have a male return the favour. We were lucky enough to know a couple were the male is bi and arranged a meet. As you can guess I did fulfil her fantasy and have oral sex with the male. It was something I enjoyed and both females got turned on watching. I haven't repeated the fantasy since but would in the right circumstances.
So I guess I am bi- friendly
 
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dave_lancs

I'm a bi guy. It's not something I look for often - I prefer ladies and couples - but I definitely enjoy cock ;) Bi parties or Bi 3ways are a LOT of fun!

If the couple is straight, that is fine by me. I'm not going to try it on with the fella unless its all agreed on beforehand.
 
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peakcouple

We're both what we would call bi-playful. She's been that way for very many years and I (G) only experienced bi play after we started swinging. R wanted to try a bi night at Chams and while she and a woman were playing the other woman's man and I did some touching and oral - a mind-blowing experience for someone who had been totally straight all my life. I loved it!

R encouraged me to explore further and I did. Have tried most things now and I'm definitely tops - she is submissive with other women. Bi play is the cream on the cake when it comes to a swinging meet, but it's not essential for either of us and neither of us try any bi activity unless we're invited or have discussed it before.
 
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XX

I'm straight, I just don't find guys attractive, no other reason, but have absolutely no issues with being around bi or gay guys or with them with or near us.

If there was a bi-male, whether single or as part of a couple that wouldn't put us off meeting them, knowing our limits.

As for Anal play we don't see that as a bi or gay preserve and both enjoy it on occasion.
 
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Lips_Pearls

Lips_Pearls

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An old friend of mine, a real hardcore biker... HA. His then fiancée at the time used to get such a kick from gay/bi male porn.
I thought at the time, that it was quite unusual for a lady to get really turned on by it., This was about 20 years ago.
But I've personally noticed that I find more and more ladies who really get turned on with the whole bi male experience.
Of course, it's not for everyone - but I am definitely finding more who do enjoy it. Significantly over the past 5+ years. :)
 
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Pearls

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Lips_Pearls said:
An old friend of mine, a real hardcore biker... HA. His then fiancée at the time used to get such a kick from gay/bi male porn.
I thought at the time, that it was quite unusual for a lady to get really turned on by it., This was about 20 years ago.
But I've personally noticed that I find more and more ladies who really get turned on with the whole bi male experience.
Of course, it's not for everyone - but I am definitely finding more who do enjoy it. Significantly over the past 5+ years. :)
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Deleted member 3411

I guess my comment is aimed/meant for bi people not just bi men. Linda is cool if another woman doesn't want to play, but as a straight guy I worry a little that if a guy makes a move on me my refusal will feel like a sort of criticism.
I'm not turned on by guys but I am by watching cocks in a fm context. I also think it sounds only too right that girls can/should get turned on by gay porn, after all lesbian porn does it for me.
 
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Colin

Colin

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I wouldn't be comfortable if a guy made a move on me its not that I think its dirty or sleazy its just not for me also another turn off for me is two guys kissing nothing wrong with that but I personally don't like to see maybe its because I had a straight marrage for 31 years.
 
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Admin

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Stew said:
Time to throw my hat in the ring !

I have never considered myself bi, but I fail to see how you can have a multi person sexual experience without some MM contact, do I shy away from it no I don't, do I encourage it no not particularly, would I ever take it further now that is the question ? Never say never, lust passion and a fabulous sexy session can and will trigger different behaviour to the norm !

By the way , in simple words can someone explain pansexual?
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Being pansexual, is being attracted to someone regardless of sex.
So you could find them attractive regardless of gender be it male/female/transsexual and so on..
You can also find people attractive mentally regardless also of sex. So you could find a lady/gent etc attractive based purely on mentality or intellect. Hope that helps @Stew :)
 
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The_Bibas

We are still coming to terms with pan everything.. Pan sexual.. Pan Asian.. Pan European.. Pan bloody continental..
Le crussier must be raking it in
 
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