Thanks, saw the bareback one, but didn't think i could add anything, apart from there are a couple of very lucky ladies out there.Interesting question, will be good to see the responses after such a heated (ongoing) debate about bareback....
![]()
![]()
No I would NEVER go without one in a play situation - absolutely insane to do so unless you are completely sure about your partner.The bare back question, I don't like them and they do make a difference but I would rather use a condom to be safe rather than be sorryxxx
Yes but if you are in a situation like cooking and something happens then you have to stop and run and grab one hehe but get what you mean with the planning, Im glad those days are over for us now and we can just be free xxxI think the 'passion' problem can be dealt with - it needs to become 'part of the act' as it were. Just needs a bit of planning.
Where is the fun in that and nothing like a heated moment in front of a hot Aga....Yummy and am sure Lady L would love it xxxCooking.....!!! Ah, Lady L would not allow such things........She takes her cooking far too seriously, for that.....
![]()
We dont have an Aga. An old electric cooker doesnt quite do it, for us.... Sorry....Where is the fun in that and nothing like a heated moment in front of a hot Aga....Yummy and am sure Lady L would love it xxx
I have heard this a lot about the female condom, but I have come across one female swinger who loves them - she reckoned it took all the worry away in group situations that the male entering her had a condom on or not...It wasn't someone I played with - her comments came from a question about female condoms on another site.I have never had the experience of a male condom but have tried the female version and trust me you may aswell not have fun, I wouldnt bother now and found the whole experience a big let down xx
Thanks for the reply....the feedback from Lady L was the sort of feedback I was hoping to get....Right.... so... this is a joint response, based on discussions between Lady L & myself. When we first met, we did Safe(r) Sex and used Condoms all the time. We both got tested several times, every 3 months and were all Clear. So.... we went Bareback.... Oo-er...! Just with each other. In a play situation, we would be Safe - no question.
The $64k question - yes, Lady L assures me she feels more and it does make a difference, to her.
I from I&L xx
Yes for me - putting on the condom is all part of the play and adds to the anticipation and excitement....I think the 'passion' problem can be dealt with - it needs to become 'part of the act' as it were. Just needs a bit of planning.
Well Pearls, it just depends....providing there is no one else around the house....we just used to have a supply handy around places in every room in the house.....just in case...and well out of the reach of the little ones....so spontaneity wasn't that much of an issue....Yes but if you are in a situation like cooking and something happens then you have to stop and run and grab one hehe but get what you mean with the planning, Im glad those days are over for us now and we can just be free xxx
Haha we have had our share of accidents and one ended up with a hospital trip with a finger hanging off but shhhh xxxWell Pearls, it just depends....providing there is no one else around the house....we just used to have a supply handy around places in every room in the house.....just in case...and well out of the reach of the little ones....so spontaneity wasn't that much of an issue....
oh and if you are having fun whilst cooking mind you don't get carried away in the passion and burn your bum on the cooker! (yep i've done that!)
Ha Ha yep fair enough....are the flavoured ones nasty too? (never tried one myself..lol)Lol
I can always tell
Leaves a taste in my mouth.. Yuk
Xxxx
yep always use some lube before....but never been asked or thought of applying after, unless for a different reason!With regret it is true..
I find that lube before and after helps.
Cystitis is also a problem with the spermicide dripping down while having anal...
Or so I have read..
Like I would actually know
Bibavirgin
With regret it is true..
I find that lube before and after helps.
Cystitis is also a problem with the spermicide dripping down while having anal...
Or so I have read..
Like I would actually know
Bibavirgin
@LadyLily Need to be safe and deffo not worth the risk of BB, I think many condoms now are supplied without Spermicidal lube have a look next time you are getting some....I normally use some extra lube too....Sorry to comment on old discussions, just thought I'd add my two cents.
I can definitely tell when a guy is wearing a condom, though perhaps not immediately. It does make a difference to me as well, normally the spermicide in condoms make me a little sore after sex.
That said, I would rather be a little sore after good, safe sex, than having risked it for bareback.
You are, so much like me xxWhat?
Sorry I don't understand the joke
I am Bibainnocent
Xx