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K1nkyJJ

K1nkyJJ

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Great thread

As others have said, for me breaking ice is one of the hardest things to do and I find it rarely gets past that. On occasion when it is broken then things seem to flow more naturally and I gain more confidence
 
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Therapon

Therapon

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Ive always found it difficult and confidence is not something I have in bucket loads. I can chat quite happily to people but taking things any further is never easy for me. In fact someone I've met practical had to ask me because I wouldn't take that first step.
 
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NotSoFireproof

NotSoFireproof

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Lovernotfighter said:
That I think is about the hardest thing to do, as well as knowing when to ask to play to soon and you're labelled as just anothing horny guy to last well you might have blown your chance completely.
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Yes. I can understand just how hard gauging that balance is.

K1nkyJJ said:
Great thread

As others have said, for me breaking ice is one of the hardest things to do and I find it rarely gets past that. On occasion when it is broken then things seem to flow more naturally and I gain more confidence
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I'm not convinced I'm any good at that to be honest haha
 
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meet_the_fockers

I dont find it difficult.. if i find someone attractive, i have no qualms in letting them know.
The way i see it whats to loose.. dont ask dont get.. drive yourself mad wondering. Should i shouldnt i, what if...
Whats the worst that can happen? er ....No?
I wont shrivel up n die.. i may throw a bit of a paddy.. for an hour.
As ive said before though.. someone makes a play for me! And i get all tongue tied and run a mile... :) xxx
 
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Pearls

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Pearls

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meet_the_fockers said:
I dont find it difficult.. if i find someone attractive, i have no qualms in letting them know.
The way i see it whats to loose.. dont ask dont get.. drive yourself mad wondering. Should i shouldnt i, what if...
Whats the worst that can happen? er ....No?
I wont shrivel up n die.. i may throw a bit of a paddy.. for an hour.
As ive said before though.. someone makes a play for me! And i get all tongue tied and run a mile... :) xxx
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:whistle::sneaky:
 
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Twickerman

Therapon said:
Ive always found it difficult and confidence is not something I have in bucket loads. I can chat quite happily to people but taking things any further is never easy for me. In fact someone I've met practical had to ask me because I wouldn't take that first step.
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I know what I have to offer and whilst I do not think I lack confidence as such I think like many of the more aware man these days I am very conscious about being thought too pushy I heart consent etc.
 
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I'm confident in asking those I'm interested in, I don't mind rejection as I know I won't be everyone's cup of tea.
 
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