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Discussion in 'BDSM & Fetish Forums' started by Lips_Pearls, 29 September 2016.

  1. Lips_Pearls

    Lips_Pearls PV Sprtr

    Interesting one this, thought we'd see who knows what it is and who practices this/lives this way?
    A D/lg relationship is Daddy and little girl.
    It's about vulnerability and having someone protect that vulnerability and serve the little one, little girl.
    To be clear this is NOT Daddy/Daughter relationship! But a Daddy and little girl, baby girl or you could even say it is a D/s relationship. (Dom sub)

    So do you know what a Daddy Baby girl relationship is, have you ever wanted to explore it and do you already live that lifestyle anyway?
    Remembering, this is and can be used heavily within swinging too.. ;) x
     
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  2. Pearls

    Pearls Site Owner Staff Admin

    Good thread :whistle::love:
     
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  3. No idea.

    I hope that helped.
     
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  4. All of it, I've lived and breathed it 24/7.
    I really really miss having a Daddy. To have that protector, someone to look up to, reassure me, provide snuggles or spanks.
    It's always been something I kept quiet, other than fetish sites. People always assume the worst. It's the caring aspect for me.
    I can go the whole hog and regress to a 3-4 year old, I'm quite child-like anyway *note that I didn't say childish, as that's completely different*
    As a single pringle, it's not easy to find this dynamic in swinging, but I've been lucky to experience it when I was previously in a poly relationship with a couple.
     
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  5. good thread hun.is it something I would part take in I have to say yes if the partner is right and would help you explore this side of swinging :X3:
     
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  6. It's not for us, but it's something I (GG) am learning to understand more about, through the connections I have on Twitter (I seem to attract a lot of D/s accounts - I have no idea why!) I can now understand how calming it must be for a woman, especially one in a high powered responsible position, to relinquish all her worries when with her Dom. Let him make all the decisions, with her best interests at heart. I'm even (slowly) beginning to "get" the punishment element, the pushing of physical boundaries, the 'being taken apart' and being 'rebuilt', and "sub-space".
    I do however cringe at the use of the words "Daddy" and "Little Girl". The people I talk to rather use the terms "Sir" and "kitten" is quite common.
     
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  7. Lips_Pearls

    Lips_Pearls PV Sprtr

    It's a dynamic where your partner/girlfriend/wife etc is your submissive and you as the Dom (it is a Dom sub role) have to make sure she knows you're hers, she's yours, and you will protect her no matter what.
    You will protect her, keep from harm, have a loving protective figure and manner, and keep her protected and safe as well as comfortable. You will be responsible for her, her safety and well being.
    In return you get her undying love (if in that relationship) and her ever willing devotion to you.
    Hope that helps....
     
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  8. I love the terms Sir and kitten, too (y)
     
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  9. Lips_Pearls

    Lips_Pearls PV Sprtr

    Am sure that this can be arranged and explored... ;) x
     
  10. :eek:
    Does asking for my mummy count? :eek: ommmm

    Nice idea to have a protector i guess..
    Although I am usually the protector... :D i have always had to be!
     
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  11. Lips_Pearls

    Lips_Pearls PV Sprtr

    Yes, Sir and kitten is an amazing choice... fan here too. :)
     
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  12. absolutely spot on! Couldn't have explained it any better x (y)(y)
     
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  13. Yes i tend to agree, the terms daddy and little girl.. dont i must admit sit very comfortably with me. X Domme however does, unsure whether i could accept being dominated.. im not one for doing as i am told. :)
     
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  14. Sir and kitten... thats nice..
     
  15. I do have a nurturing nature about me. Comes from doing the job that I do I suppose. I can see an attraction in it. Personally I'm more of a partnership working together rather than taking a more dominant role. However, when in the mood.....:whistle:
     
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  16. Lips_Pearls

    Lips_Pearls PV Sprtr

    Ah but you do work together. That's the beauty of it.
    Ultimately it is she, your sub, who really has the control - not you.
    If that makes sense.

    Yes that's it.. Relinquishing power, control and allowing your vulnerability to be taken into someone else's hands so they can protect you. Can serve you. Can nurture and take care of you.

    I think the Daddy and baby girl thing is mainly American but becoming increasingly popular here.
    Whereas Sir and Kitten is more prominent here. Or even Sir and Little Kitten.
    Also Daddy is still a UK thing too. But it varies from partner to partner and dynamics etc.

    GG what I will say regarding the Twitter Doms is - be careful. A lot of them are wanna be Doms and not true gentlemen Doms.
    A true Gentleman Dom will never seek your attention or look to get your responses, rather keep doing 'his thing' and draw you in slowly to exchanging comms etc.
    Some are simply asshats who have no iota of any of the dynamics at play here.

    The whole concept is to be submissive but then taken care of forever or however long the dynamic runs for. In return you get total and undying commitment.
    Very fulfilling, rewarding and satisfying. :)
     
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  17. Charlia

    Charlia PV Sprtr

    Don't forget it can be Mummy/little boy. Daddy/little boy and Mummy/little girl too :)
     
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  18. Ok im off... :D
     
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  19. Oh believe me I know about the asshats! There are oodles of wannabe Doms over there, but I'm interested in learning from the few true D/s couples I tweet with. Not because it's something I ever want to pursue, but I just find other people's (sex) lives fascinating. I'm also learning from a guy sub/ switch who regularly visits pro Dommes/ subs......it's a whole new world!
     
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  20. It's not something that we've done or would do in honesty but definitely the "Sir/Kitten " term is much easier to digest as a reader rather than the parent/child references which probably give this fetish a much worse perception & reputation than perhaps it deserves
     
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  21. Lovernotfighter

    Lovernotfighter PV Sprtr

    I can say I know a little about it last summer I had an all too brief relation with a babygirl, a daddy Dom is more of a protector, confidante, guide, and encourager than the classic in control dom.
    It is also a BDSM dynamic I want to be part of again since partners are soft, kind, loving and devoted to each other in a rather unique way.
     
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  22. You really get it and it's freakin' awesome. It's totally this. *kneels at feet, waiting to be petted*
     
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  23. Hello Sir, have you got that cane yet? :sneaky: :Ohyessir:
     
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  24. I'm working on it :sneaky::D
     
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  25. can't wait Sir :X3:
     
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