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D/lg Relationship

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Bump-n-Grind

Just in case anyone was suspecting me to be a closet Dom, the cane is to do with the St Trinians theme for the Midlands Social, I'm probably going as a Headmaster
 
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Twickerman

When I first came across this, relatively early on in my travels in to the lands of BDSM I will admit to being a little freaked out, perhaps as a father it felt too near to abuse. But then as I discovered more especially about myself as a Dom it made sense to me. I am naturally paternalistic and initially was not comfortable with the darker parts of BDSM. So my previous D/s relationships have had overtones of Daddy in them.

As such I would consider it my role to guide and nurture, to comfort, encourage and support. An impish act might raise a wry smile but deliberate misbehaviour would be met with stern reproach or punishment. The reward is open and honest affection, with no "adult" agendas.

Oh and in my case it was Sir and my/your "girl" the latter with appropriate appendages (Ooh Errr Missus ) such as loving, cheeky, sleepy etc.
 
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Lips_Pearls

19 March 2015
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Charlia said:
I must admit though DD/lg holds no interest for me. I don't get it. It's an interesting dynamic to watch though
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I think some confusion has taken place though throughout the thread...
If I may say so, a DD/lg or Sir/Kitten relationship is also wholly different to Daddy/girl role play.
There are two dynamics that I see. One is D/s - DD/lg on a mental and physical state with the care and protection and love, plus attention... and the other is role play DD/lg..dummies, nappies and the such.
IMHO the two are vastly different.

just my (Lips) opinion xx
 

Charlia

12 August 2015
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They can be separate. They can also be together. In fact, you can't have the role play without the care and loving trust/protection.

Most DD/lg relationships I know of tend to have an aspect of a little and care dynamic in it. Which is the bit I don't get. Littles are odd creatures, even ones that don't go so young as to need nappies, dummies etc.

Tell you who could give some more info on it. @MrTrilB @MrsTrilB @LittleTrilB
 
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peakcouple

Vaguely aware of this but it doesn't appeal, neither of us like the idea of one partner being totally submissive.

Wonder how it relates to swinging, would the daddy be happy to let his little girl be fucked by other men or would he want to keep her all to himself, as you might imagine?
 
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Pearls said:
This is something that is within you. It can't be put on for show, a lot of people don't realise that people live this life every day.
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This
It's not a game, it's not fake, nor forced. Being little is who I am, I suck at being an adult.
I am so lucky to have a Daddy that is so natural, it's him, a part of who he is.
 
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olderbull

I had a sub who liked to be a `little` . She enjoyed role play as a sexually precocious girl I called kitten.
We avoided the daddy reference because it did not turn me on. Her favorite role was to be `discovered`
masturbating which was rewarded with a spanking is this a common fantasy? I have not found anyone since who is interested.
 
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I don't think being called Daddy has to be a turn on, more of an endearment.
There's a wide spectrum of scenarios within DD/lg stuffs, si I wouldn't say your scenario was too peculiar at all.
 

Cheeky_Demon

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I've role played the scenario with a couple before. Me being Sir, her being kitten, him (being the cuckold) waiting downstairs of his own request.

In their day to day lives, he was very much in control. He ran the house, controlled the finances, had the high power job. It was classic reversal. They were (still are) very much in love. Over the course of a month or so I got to know them both through various social meetings. Lunches, coffees, dinners etc. To the point where he was happy for us to socialise alone (she worked part time so was able to meet frequently). It transpired from the solo chats the while she was always in charge in the bedroom, she like to feel vulnerable at times and controlled. So we spoke about various scenarios that she may enjoy. Landing on Sir/Kitten.

Our 3-way relationship, from that point, lasted around 3 years. I was asked occasionally to meet her alone, away from their home. Sometimes with him present at home. We (all 3 of us) purchased specific toys and accessories that only I was allowed to utilise.

I have to say whilst I was given a position of power & trust we formed a very real friendship, understanding and open dialogue. That was around 12 years ago. They live in Scotland now, but all 3 of us still chat/message often. The needed that then and it seems to have cemented them even closer. I consider them good friends. I even helped them move house!
 
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