Completely agreed. Granted there's some lows too, but the highs far outweigh them.
This is it, it's natural human instinct to look at other people and eye them up. It's normal.. and as you say, as swingers we just act on it.
Completely agreed. Granted there's some lows too, but the highs far outweigh them.We find ourselves very much happier. For a start, we both experience compersion as a very real thing (for example I have spontaneously come three times during our meets as Lass approaches climax whilst riding our shared lover) and we both love to see the other happy.
It's also an acknowledgement that humans aren't always naturally monogamous - we all, all, look at other people but swingers like to act on it.
We certainly get on better than we did before.. So probably..Very simple as it says...Do you think couples who swing, make happier couples? (married or not)
I don't mean fuckbuddies either I mean long term couples.
If so, in your opinion - why?
If not, in your opinion - why not?
Absolutely... It does add a degree of security, that's very true and accurate. It also builds and strengthens the bonds we have as lovers as well as soul mates too xWe certainly get on better than we did before.. So probably..
I think the tolerance vs reassurances one goes through improve.
After all seeing your partner with someone else and having no doubts that your psrtner will and want to go home with you adds a degree of security that a normal relationships struggle to ever achieve.
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Very simple as it says...Do you think couples who swing, make happier couples? (married or not)
I don't mean fuckbuddies either I mean long term couples.
If so, in your opinion - why?
If not, in your opinion - why not?
I think swinging couples need a strong relationship built on mutual trust and openness to begin with, I'd expect this would lead to happiness generally, also I'd imagine they'd also have a good social life (that the isn't built around just sitting in a pub drinking) which also builds happiness.Anyone else have opinions about this? Do swinging couples make happier couples? x
Absolutely. This is a shared interest and choice with couples, (mostly) and like for us for an example - we're in it together and do everything together. Granted real life has taken its toll recently, but otherwise it's the two of us doing everything together.I think swinging couples need a strong relationship built on mutual trust and openness to begin with, I'd expect this would lead to happiness generally, also I'd imagine they'd also have a good social life (that the isn't built around just sitting in a pub drinking) which also builds happiness.
:hmm: Well there's the sex... I always found sex to be more enjoyable than rock climbing or indeed anything else I have done. Maybe I'm differentI'm not sure. If a couple are honest with each other, willing to talk about all aspects of their relationship with each other, have something they both enjoy and are willing to help support each other achieve their goals and are not jealous of each others attainments then I would expect them to be happy regardless of whether they are swingers or not.
So if a couple enjoy swinging and are always there for each other is it any different to say a couple who get their adrenalin fix from rock climbing?
Very simple as it says...Do you think couples who swing, make happier couples? (married or not)
I don't mean fuckbuddies either I mean long term couples.
If so, in your opinion - why?
If not, in your opinion - why not?
Agreed! Swinging to try and 'repair' a broken marriage or partnership, is most likely only going to end in disaster. Also it is unfair on the swinging couple/swingle you get involved with too as they end up in the crossfireAs long as you are happy before going into swinging yes as it only enhances your relationship but going into swinging to make your relationship happier could have dire affects on an already unhappy relationship..
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