Drugs and the swinging scene.

[..]

Having been on the swinging scene for many years, we have heard many stories about drugs being taken at clubs or parties, it is a sad occurrence of today's generation, yes the hardest drug mr kinky has taken is viagra, but also we have used poppers, which we find can be very relaxing, what's your thoughts on drugs? For us it is a no no, and Mr kinky knows all the signs of drug use so if we were to meet and you were under the influence of any drugs, we would not take the meet any further, or socially bother with you again. So come on people honest views please.

 

[Leather]

Having been on the swinging scene for many years, we have heard many stories about drugs being taken at clubs or parties, it is a sad occurrence of today's generation, yes the hardest drug mr kinky has taken is viagra, but also we have used poppers, which we find can be very relaxing, what's your thoughts on drugs? For us it is a no no, and Mr kinky knows all the signs of drug use so if we were to meet and you were under the influence of any drugs, we would not take the meet any further, or socially bother with you again. So come on people honest views please.

I am very anti drugs and see drug abuse on a day to day basis,If anyone was under the influence of drugs it would be a no no for me and like you I can spot the signs a mile off xxx

 

[Lace]

I am the same very anti drugs and never tried anything and wouldnt want to..I would hate the feeling of not being in control Im bad enough after a glass of wine lol.
I wouldnt carry on with a meet if that person or persons were using drugs xxx

 

[Admin]

Hmm drugs on the scene is a huge issue.
Smoking pot, taking cocaine, popping pills.. It's not very good really.

Am I anti drugs, not really in a specific capacity. For instance, I do believe arthritis symptoms and symptoms of MS can be relieved by cannabis.
Drugs for recreational use, I have to be careful but I do believe that if you're in the comfort of your own home, behind closed doors - then it's your life, your call, your responsibility.

In the scene/lifestyle as far as socials or meets?
Absolute no.. it's not right on social meets etc.

 

[..]

Hmm drugs on the scene is a huge issue.
Smoking pot, taking cocaine, popping pills.. It's not very good really.

Am I anti drugs, not really in a specific capacity. For instance, I do believe arthritis symptoms and symptoms of MS can be relieved by cannabis.
Drugs for recreational use, I have to be careful but I do believe that if you're in the comfort of your own home, behind closed doors - then it's your life, your call, your responsibility.

In the scene/lifestyle as far as socials or meets?
Absolute no.. it's not right on social meets etc.

We had a cpl who we got friendly with not played with, they came to our house once, and he was that off his face, we never played and they never got invited back and since then, they have given us the cold shoulder, not us too them the cheek of it, and also noticed the same person at another social party, in the same state, so he must have serious issues, as we run the Newport social anyone caught doing drugs will be banned for good, and word does get around.

 

[Harvey]

I am a chold of the rave scene was drugs were part of my daily life but with exception to one they all prevent you from having sex!
Now much older i see how much damage they have and still do to old friends and agree its best to leave them out of any sexual connection.

 

[Lace]

I am a chold of the rave scene was drugs were part of my daily life but with exception to one they all prevent you from having sex!
Now much older i see how much damage they have and still do to old friends and agree its best to leave them out of any sexual connection.

I agree and tbh Im not that good after one glass of wine so wouldnt stand a chance with drugs xx

 

[Deleted member 811]

I am absolutely against any of the abused drugs. I watched family and friends destroy themselves and their families. Zero tolerance policy is my rule

 

[Lips_Pearls]

I am absolutely against any of the abused drugs. I watched family and friends destroy themselves and their families. Zero tolerance policy is my rule

Agree, it's dangerous and destroys so many lives. There's just no need for it.
A user may enjoy it at the time, but the long term consequences are unreal..

 

[mr&mrs sparks]

Hiya all well as for taking drug I only have a joint or or two at Xmas any other time I can't and the same with drinking cos of my job it's a zero tolarce.. apart from a joint or two I wouldn't bother with any thing else I do have problems with my back but but nothing other than that

 

[Admin]

Yeah that's fair enough, indeed you've said many times drink is an issue because of work and shifts and being on call etc.
Not ideal but means you enjoy it all the more when you're off

 

[Wolf]

Don't do drugs and rarely drink. They are both just too damned expensive ffs!

 

[Lace]

Don't do drugs and rarely drink. They are both just too damned expensive ffs!

That a good point xx

 

[Wolf]

Just as well I'm not rich maybe

 

[Lace]

Just as well I'm not rich maybe

Me too for that matter xx

 

[Vex]

I'm definitely pro-weed. I don't mess with anything else, esp. if made with chemicals and not natural. But I prefer to smoke in a controlled environment, so if I was around a bunch of people I don't know, I'd stay straight.

 

[Lips_Pearls]

I'm definitely pro-weed. I don't mess with anything else, esp. if made with chemicals and not natural. But I prefer to smoke in a controlled environment, so if I was around a bunch of people I don't know, I'd stay straight.

Glad you have respect for the drug and that you dont abuse it like most and as long as it doesnt effect anyone else then enjoy xx

 

[Vex]

Glad you have respect for the drug and that you dont abuse it like most and as long as it doesnt effect anyone else then enjoy xx

Indeed. I'd never want to make someone uncomfortable. I don't smoke anymore (well until it gets legalized here).

 

[Lips_Pearls]

Indeed. I'd never want to make someone uncomfortable. I don't smoke anymore (well until it gets legalized here).

Good for you xx

 

[sthwalescpl]

We've regularly seen weed used during parties, and on one or two occasions LSD, as well as the most popular drug, (and the only one we will go anywhere near), alcohol.

Each to their own, so long as they are considerate about it, and don't try to push it on us, then it's their life, they are adults.

 

[Vex]

I don't mess with anything except weed.

 

[kopinov]

I'll have the odd to me of weed at a festival, but I don't allow it any place at home - and I imagine toking whilst swinging would render me useless, especially if there was a buffet.

Harder drugs aren't my cup of tea at all. Mind you, it seems they're finding their way up all sorts of noses in the most disturbing of places... not good at all!

 

[TownhouseTwosome]

Ok 2 persepectives here....on a personal level in my own home, I have smoked weed and had amazing sex. I fair better with weed than I do with alcohol, which just makes it hard to come! I wouldn't do anything like that if I was meeting someone else for a play...I don't mix swinging with weed.

From a club perspective, we have an absolute zero tolerance on drugs. If someone walks in and smells of weed, they don't get in; I don't care if it was from a joint smoked a few hours prior. If someone looks like their as a kite (ex raver so I've seen my fair share) they don't get in. We have UV lights around the club. People think it's part of the ambience and atmosphere but actually so I can see any white powder around their nose! We have a clear policy...if people are caught taking drugs, they get an immediate and lifetime ban and if their drug taking involves sharing with other people or causes violence/disorder, the police are called. We've never had to do this, but everyone knows that I don't take any shit!

xxx

 

[Vex]

I don't think weed is harmful. The United States is finally realizing that and half the nation has legalized it. It produces a huge tax revenue and I'm glad to see this happening!

 

[TownhouseTwosome]

I don't think weed is harmful. The United States is finally realizing that and half the nation has legalized it. It produces a huge tax revenue and I'm glad to see this happening!

Well quite the opposite to harmful for me. I have Lupus which is an auto immune disease and smoking a weed actually relieves my pain and other neuropathic symptoms. I smoke weeds so rarely now as I'm always working; think the last time was early this year, but there is no doubt for me that it has therapuetic properties xx