Got To Thinking..yes I Know.. Lol

Basically, who people have sex with is their business, when you have been swinging for a few years you've played with all sorts of people. We don't like 'hardened' swingers who do it obsessively, keeping sense of fun and making it all erotic is part of the game but some people seem bored or jaded. We wouldn't knowingly play with people like that but sometimes you don't find out until you're actually doing it.

Well so far (thanks to how new we are to both each other and to the scene) we've played very very little. I think I'm with @cinnamon_giggles in that bed-posters would put us off, but I think if I read or heard of anyone who was wild and did everything with anyone and as many... Well the issue would possibly be risk factor; and by that I mean more than just health. Discretion and privacy is important to us and I don't think we'd want to be 'known' every corner of the world.
Otherwise there are some here we don't get a tingle from, knowing someone we want to meet has spent time with them wouldn't be an immediate block to fun.

Playing catchup with some threads, since I'm new to the forums...

meet_the_fockers said:

You are arranging to meet someone..
You realise theyve met and played with quite a few.
Perhaps someone that you think urgh?
Does it put you off?
Or do you think their choice, its a swinging site, its what its all about.. xx

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I'm struggling to think of any circs where a partner's previous sexual history (provided all safe) would cause me a problem, certainly to the point where other things being equal I'd meet...?

No, their body, their choice.

Sure, my body and my choice, but I choose to be ok with their choices.