Evening folks.
So how do you show nerves? I'm naturally shy, and I find it really difficult to ask someone to join me for a play session, to the point I will go without.
I also get so wound up I end up cancelling any meets I've agreed to.
So my question is; what do you do to get around the jitters? I find it easier if my partner/s and I have agreed to a level of D/s play. It helps ground me a lot. I'm not sure if that's something that's easy to add in a swinging environment. My s-side is rather on the submissive scale, so I'm always worried about agreeing to that with casual play partner/s
So how do you show nerves? I'm naturally shy, and I find it really difficult to ask someone to join me for a play session, to the point I will go without.
I also get so wound up I end up cancelling any meets I've agreed to.
So my question is; what do you do to get around the jitters? I find it easier if my partner/s and I have agreed to a level of D/s play. It helps ground me a lot. I'm not sure if that's something that's easy to add in a swinging environment. My s-side is rather on the submissive scale, so I'm always worried about agreeing to that with casual play partner/s