How Did You Settle Your Nerves?
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In a club if im not with someone then i usually wont play because im to shy to ask and feel like I will be rejected.
For meets, dates anything I get so nervous im almost sick and my anxiety makes my skin burn which is uncomfortable
For meets, dates anything I get so nervous im almost sick and my anxiety makes my skin burn which is uncomfortable
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I have been thinking about this post and just a suggestion, what about changing your view on a club scenario, we don't have any intentions when going to a club, we simple want to go and meet people that we know and new people, enjoying the company and having a laugh, if we hit it off with anyone then we make a date for another time.
I would say go to social events that we have coming up, get to know members and others from the club and who knows, you could be having another meet up before you know it.
Clubs are not all about playing.
I certainly wouldn't be thinking about rejection as that shouldn't come into it, you are a couple and if exchanging partners then all of this would be discussed prior to anything happening.
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We had nerves and for our initial visit settled them by taking sex off the table and just going for a look. The nerves haven't gone completely away but we have fantastic fun now
Everyone goes for the same thing speak to people and see how it goes but even if you are rejected it's never in a offensive way in our experience
Everyone goes for the same thing speak to people and see how it goes but even if you are rejected it's never in a offensive way in our experience
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No we have a family holiday booked for May.... Will likely attend the next social after that. X