Insecurities

[Pearls]

Do you have any?
About yourself or maybe about meeting others for sex

How about putting your cards on the table and see if we can help each other. #caringpearls

 

[Deleted member 11852]

I think we all have if we're honest.. Mine are mainly about my size even though I'm probably more paranoid the people about it than the people we meet.. W..

 

[Guru G]

Do you have any?
About yourself or maybe about meeting others for sex

How about putting your cards on the table and see if we can help each other. #caringpearls

Yeah,

Acne scars
Stretch marks,
My weight,
Small dick

Other than that I’m probably perfect

 

[DebE]

Mainly my weight
Stretch marks...but after carying twins, who the feck dont get stretch marks!

 

[Deleted member 11852]

Mainly my weight
Stretch marks...but after carying twins, who the feck dont get stretch marks!

I haven't even got that excuse.. W..

 

[Pearls]

What about meeting?

 

[FredBloggs]

My small dick

 

[DebE]

What about meeting?

Simply asking as i find refusal embarrasing x

 

[Guru G]

What about meeting?

Wasn’t that the original question lol

 

[Deleted member 11852]

Wasn’t that the original question lol

You drinking again.. Can't be just me.. W..

 

[MP386]

Do you have any?
About yourself or maybe about meeting others for sex

How about putting your cards on the table and see if we can help each other. #caringpearls

Since starting swinging I think my insecurities about how I look have improved to a point where I hope if people want to meet me they are attracted enough to want to possibly have sex .
Performance ,I’d hope I am turned on enough to satisfy any partner….with age it can take longer to recover ..
As for asking to meet that is something I’ve found easier over time , sometimes you get blanked that can be disheartening but when they agree it’s

 

[Ymichael14]

If I ever find someone that would meet me I'm afraid I will get so excited I will throw up on them. Or hump thier leg like a dog. Or hump thier leg then throw up on them.
I also fear no one will want me because I have no experience with swinging.
As far as me being insecure about my body, I always date women that are fatter or uglier than me .
Seriously, I dont think straight guys care what they look like.
When we get married our wives dress us because they are embarrassed to be seen with us in public.

 

[Guru G]

If I ever find someone that would meet me I'm afraid I will get so excited I will throw up on them. Or hump thier leg like a dog. Or hump thier leg then throw up on them.
I also fear no one will want me because I have no experience with swinging.
As far as me being insecure about my body, I always date women that are fatter or uglier than me .
Seriously, I dont think straight guys care what they look like.
When we get married our wives dress us because they are embarrassed to be seen with us in public.

I care about what I look like although people have said I’m gay. Also I’m concerned I get so excited I spunk on the first kiss

 

[tricky-dicky]

Do you have any?
About yourself or maybe about meeting others for sex

How about putting your cards on the table and see if we can help each other. #caringpearls

To miss-quote Old Blue Eyes

Insecurities, I have a few
But then again too few to mention
I did what I had to do
I saw it through without exemption
I planned each charted course
Each careful step along the byway
And more, much, much more
I did it, I did it my way

 

[Ragdoll]

I found this thread and omg this is still so relevant. In a world of perfect bodies on social media sites it is tough to not look in the mirror and tear your own appearance to pieces.
I stand up every week and dance literally with next to nothing on, posting the videos on my social media site for all to comment on.
Am I insecure? Hell yes, I have a shopping list of cosmetic procedures I’d love to have, Liposuction, boob job, but the one thing we all need to remember is, we all have something that makes us insecure, and it’s confidence that makes you the person you are.
You can be told over and over you are enough, but you have to believe it.
Dancing in front of a cheering audience is the biggest confidence booster and makes you realise real women come in all shapes and sizes and every single one of them is perfect 🫶

 

[MP386]

I found this thread and omg this is still so relevant. In a world of perfect bodies on social media sites it is tough to not look in the mirror and tear your own appearance to pieces.
I stand up every week and dance literally with next to nothing on, posting the videos on my social media site for all to comment on.
Am I insecure? Hell yes, I have a shopping list of cosmetic procedures I’d love to have, Liposuction, boob job, but the one thing we all need to remember is, we all have something that makes us insecure, and it’s confidence that makes you the person you are.
You can be told over and over you are enough, but you have to believe it.
Dancing in front of a cheering audience is the biggest confidence booster and makes you realise real women come in all shapes and sizes and every single one of them is perfect 🫶

You are perfectly gorgeous

 

[Ragdoll]

You are perfectly gorgeous

Thank you

 

[Pearls]

I found this thread and omg this is still so relevant. In a world of perfect bodies on social media sites it is tough to not look in the mirror and tear your own appearance to pieces.
I stand up every week and dance literally with next to nothing on, posting the videos on my social media site for all to comment on.
Am I insecure? Hell yes, I have a shopping list of cosmetic procedures I’d love to have, Liposuction, boob job, but the one thing we all need to remember is, we all have something that makes us insecure, and it’s confidence that makes you the person you are.
You can be told over and over you are enough, but you have to believe it.
Dancing in front of a cheering audience is the biggest confidence booster and makes you realise real women come in all shapes and sizes and every single one of them is perfect 🫶

Confidence is key and unless you believe in yourself then you’ll never be comfortable in your own skin.
I guess I’m the opposite, I don’t have social media to seek that, which usually from what I see is fake and you have to be perfect. (Whatever that is)
We are all beautiful, it’s just finding that from within and you look good to me Miss J

 

[Ragdoll]

Confidence is key and unless you believe in yourself then you’ll never be comfortable in your own skin.
I guess I’m the opposite, I don’t have social media to seek that, which usually from what I see is fake and you have to be perfect. (Whatever that is)
We are all beautiful, it’s just finding that from within and you look good to me Miss J

Thank you Pearls