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8 July 2018
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Never outdoors, you don’t know what you are missing. The build up to the thrill of finding just the right location, the feeling of cool summer air as parts are exposed, the necessity to be discreet but pounding of hearts as exposed, sense heightened in every sense .... can you tell, high up on my list of ???
Couldn’t agree more, I’ve had plenty of fun in nature :sneaky: & it’s always a thrilling experience!
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Tiger xx
 
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We are here on a swinging site , so is there anything you have thought about ? Which you might ordinarily say no that’s not for me ?
obviously there are many varied kinks out there some more extreme than others but have you thought I would give that a go I may not like it but unless I try will i surprise myself ?
For me one thing that has crossed my mind on more than one occasion is pegging , being taken in the way that blokes would dominate a lady , I think it’s the vulnerability that makes it exciting not being in control , being controlled ...
Obviously it had to be with someone you trust as will all things ... there are other things I’ve tried and I want to explore further give the opportunity...
same sex ? Has it crossed your mind ? It doesn’t mean your gay or lesbian but would you like to experiment given the opportunity ?
Or for you is swinging just about more conventionally accepted sex ...
This may have been discussed before probably has but it’s Saturday night and things need spicing up a bit ....
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It's a tricky question this, because I like to try things and be experimental.
Maybe a swingers cruise?
 

Therapon

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Since joining the site a while ago with no real idea or expectations all I can say is I have tried a lot of things that I never thought I would and I've enjoyed most, but not all of them.
There are still a few things I am unsure about but not had had the opportunity to try them.

Having seen the video @MP386 are you willing to place your bits in @Miss-Sexy-Legs tender care :D
 
MP386

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Since joining the site a while ago with no real idea or expectations all I can say is I have tried a lot of things that I never thought I would and I've enjoyed most, but not all of them.
There are still a few things I am unsure about but not had had the opportunity to try them.

Having seen the video @MP386 are you willing to place your bits in @Miss-Sexy-Legs tender care :D
It looked like you were having fun , so the question is am I brave enough to let @Miss-Sexy-Legs work her magic on me ... :)
 
MP386

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It is enjoyable if that type of thing appeals to you which I think it does for you.
Since becoming involved with SS I’ve obviously seen things which I’ve thought I’d like to try , BDSM is something that has been of interest but its finding the right people to learn from if that makes sense ... so obviously the areas involved are quite sensitive and you would need someone who knows what they are doing and @Miss-Sexy-Legs plainly knows what she is doing .....
 
19 March 2015
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I'm a natural Dominant and as you will know, HRH is my submissive..
But!
I have previously been taken over and Dommed during a 3sum with a friend and I was ahem, 'milked'.. it was fucking mindblowing.
Knowing they were taking turns and literally both dominating me, when it's against the grain, it was great fun.
Apparently I was like a waterfall... so hell yeah. I'd do it again too.
Pegging = great fun if done properly.

I LOVE the BDSM scene prob more than swinging, but mix BDSM and swinging = win win for everyone.
We've even gagged someone and allowed her a drink or smoke only when we saw fit. You can have so much fun...
 

Therapon

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11 August 2015
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Since becoming involved with SS I’ve obviously seen things which I’ve thought I’d like to try , BDSM is something that has been of interest but its finding the right people to learn from if that makes sense ... so obviously the areas involved are quite sensitive and you would need someone who knows what they are doing and @Miss-Sexy-Legs plainly knows what she is doing .....

It makes perfect sense, lets face it there are a lot of wannabe doms, mainly male, who think BDSM is just another way to get sex, or think BDSM porn movies are what BDSM is all about. Then there are the ones who seem to talk the talk but the more they talk the more you realise it's mainly copied from elsewhere. Yes I'm having a bit of a rant but if you are a submissive, restrained and the dom gets out of hand and doesn't stop when asked, or you are the dom and don't really know what you are doing then someone could be seriously injured. So yes it makes sense to have an idea about what you would like to do, to talk to other people with some experience. BDSM is about trusting someone, either by giving them control of your body and mind or by being able to dominate somebody but knowing, even if they don't that they have reached their limits for that session.
We have made mistakes, none serious, but we are willing to admit it and to learn from them.
Most of all it's about enjoyment for both the dom and sub. Both MSL and myself will be happy to chat in PM if there is anything you want to ask. We aren't experts but happy to try and help. Finallly have you thought about attending a Munch?
 
MP386

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It makes perfect sense, lets face it there are a lot of wannabe doms, mainly male, who think BDSM is just another way to get sex, or think BDSM porn movies are what BDSM is all about. Then there are the ones who seem to talk the talk but the more they talk the more you realise it's mainly copied from elsewhere. Yes I'm having a bit of a rant but if you are a submissive, restrained and the dom gets out of hand and doesn't stop when asked, or you are the dom and don't really know what you are doing then someone could be seriously injured. So yes it makes sense to have an idea about what you would like to do, to talk to other people with some experience. BDSM is about trusting someone, either by giving them control of your body and mind or by being able to dominate somebody but knowing, even if they don't that they have reached their limits for that session.
We have made mistakes, none serious, but we are willing to admit it and to learn from them.
Most of all it's about enjoyment for both the dom and sub. Both MSL and myself will be happy to chat in PM if there is anything you want to ask. We aren't experts but happy to try and help. Finallly have you thought about attending a Munch?
I’d agree it takes a lot of trust , and does help talking about things before ever starting anything, yes I’ve had dabble both being dominant and submissive with someone I totally trust and know .... but to me that’s experimenting with things I do have to say I enjoyed it immensely both ways ... obviously I was always cautious and made sure she was happy with what was going on .... I’d never want to go to far ..
No never considered a munch I know you have talked about them and recommend them to others so probably a good place to go and learn ,it’s something that I’d like to learn more about and try to understand more about it .
 
MP386

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Yeah no way would I ride a bike with a dildo on the seat (this is the mr). Mrs says she wont do the cum on the face walk of shame in the street/shops (seems very popular in japan).
So I guess Mrs isn’t trying Pegging you then :lol::lol:Cum on the face that’s popular in Japan I must google it ?