This ^^^^ right here is the winner in my opinion.
No I didn't want to add pics at first either. Kaz was fine, she is very secure with her body, but me?.... well I was worried. I was expecting negative comments about my body. I watched other men post pics with a similar physique to me, men in nix, men in tights, men tied up and no negative comments made.
It dawned on me that some ladies actually like a bit of meat on a man and it encouraged me to post a couple. I've received absolutely no derogative comments or abuse whatsoever. And even though it was a joke, my bum in Kaz's nix got 6 votes for Pic Of The Month which is more than what Kaz's bum got in the same nix (though I sense some of you were having a giraffe
). It felt quite empowering actually and I really appreciate the votes I got, very confidence building.
B x