For me Pleasuring a man is easy..
Being pleasured is difficult so generally I take control and get them to do what I want...
Really can't be bothered with the 2 hours of slavering all over my my bits...
Just get get it in...
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At times I would like to 'take control' and admire the women that can do that ..but much prefer those 2 hours of pleasuring before the need to 'get it in'