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Hi,

Just thought we'd give you all a little update on things.

So can I first say the site has been a tremendous help from the depth of information to the warmth and kindness of the people in helping 2 people curious, but with no clue at all, make very helpful and potentially life changing decisions. In particular a certain couple who have kind of befriended us and listen to us rabbit on. They are more helpful than they know.

We've decided not to go ahead and experience our first threesome with an escort. After a lot of thought and discussion we've realised that if we enjoy that experience this would be our next logical step. however, that experience will be very different to the one we will possibly have in a club. So why not just try that first?

We are now looking at possibly going to a club, meeting some people, having a chat and a drink and maybe even a hot tub or something like that. Then see where the night takes us. It might just be that but every journey begins with a single step so lets see where it takes us.

So thanks for the encouragement, support and those who liked the picture of my bum ;). Who knows maybe we'll see some of you soon.

Thanks

lanelad
 
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People, thank you one and all for the kind welcome and the advice. Currently taking all your suggestions and advice on aboard and discussing and processing. As we've said we are still talking about this and want to make sure this is right for us. Your kind comments and suggestions are a big help to us.
Great questions - very informative to read as well as others' responses...welcome both
 
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Great to see you enjoying the site and joining in with the sexy crew here. Keep it going and looking forward to see how you progress.

Enjoy the journey xxx :0)) T&C
 
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Hi,

We're obviously not only new to the site but new to the concept of swinging. Were both early forties and are both getting divorced from previous partners. We've only been together for a few months now but we both like the concept of swinging.

We've joined to speak to some people to find out about all sorts of things from etiquette to how it works for people both good and bad.

So please be gentle we come naively with good intentions.

Lanelad & Lass

Hey you two, hope you're enjoying so far. I still see myself as a newbie, & I'm still learning how to use the site as I'm not tech savvy. I hope you're both okay as it sounds difficult to go through divorces. How are you doing and are you going to be attending events this year?
(if so, might see you there) :)
 
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Hi Wolfie,

How are you? We’re both fine thank you, very much enjoying the site and talking to the people on it. Divorces are going ok. It can be messy but so far so good(y).

We are going the Birthday Bash in March and we’ll see if there’s any others. As yet to dip our toes in the water but I’m sure we’ll enjoy it when it happens. Would love to meet up if you are coming as thoroughly enjoying meeting new people.

Lanelad x
 
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@Lanelad that's good to hear, great stuff. Yeah I'm good thank you just so much on at the moment. Yes will be coming along to the event, me and @Shadowfox are sorting out & booking accommodation and transport this weekend ready for March. It'll be lovely to meet you both,
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Well that’s excellent news, we’re there both nights so it’ll be lovely to have a small sherry and a chinwag. Would you be up for a cheeky follow?

Lanelad
 
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That'll be lovely.
yeah sure you're welcome to follow, I still need to work it out properly. Think it makes keeping upto date with people easier so you may get a follow back too, as I am trying to follow back followers :lol:
 
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That'll be lovely.
yeah sure you're welcome to follow, I still need to work it out properly. Think it makes keeping upto date with people easier so you may get a follow back too, as I am trying to follow back followers :lol:
My I follow?
 

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That'll be lovely.
yeah sure you're welcome to follow, I still need to work it out properly. Think it makes keeping upto date with people easier so you may get a follow back too, as I am trying to follow back followers :lol:
Yes that’s correct and a bit more as it may allow you to view albums with set permissions.
Aside from that, we’re definitely aware of the fact that the site needs a freshen up and made to make things a little easier for all, so we have planned updates which we’re currently working on.
You can find more out in our announcements threads here;
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Hope this helps somewhat x
 
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Yes that’s correct and a bit more as it may allow you to view albums with set permissions.
Aside from that, we’re definitely aware of the fact that the site needs a freshen up and made to make things a little easier for all, so we have planned updates which we’re currently working on.
You can find more out in our announcements threads here;
Announcements
Hope this helps somewhat x
Thank you, that is great - it does help. It is more just me and my learning speed, finding it much more smooth now after being on it for a few months, & fun to discover new little bits here and there, like what you've mentioned
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Thank you, that is great - it does help. It is more just me and my learning speed, finding it much more smooth now after being on it for a few months, & fun to discover new little bits here and there, like what you've mentioned
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Most welcome. We know we need to address some things, and we are.
But a lot of it is simply acclimatising :) am glad all is coming there for you. X