I wasn’t sure where to post this but I’m struggling right now my fiancé and I recently started talking about swinging I wasn’t ok with it at first but with persuasion she managed to change my mind. She met another man last night and honestly I feel like it’s ruined us I can’t blame her as it takes two to tango but I’m not sure I can be with her anymore I’m trying to push it to the back of my mind but it’s just there it’s like I don’t see her as her anymore she’s tried comforting me deleted all accounts straight away can’t fault her effort in her reactions but will these feelings go? I’ve never been in this situation before she knows my kink is Dom we have a sm relationship but this isn’t what I want I still see her as solely mine maybe it’s the Dom in me? I know people are going to say things like play with devil etc but if you don’t try it how do you know if you like it but I feel like talking about it and doing it are completely separate now any advice? I feel like I should leave her now rather than string her on she is a good women and at least deserves that I’m hoping this community is decent and not just going to kick me while I’m down just seeking genuine advice