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No silly @T&C you’ve just got here. Settled in well though ??
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Yep you took me under your wing ???xxxx :0)) TI remember when you first joined?
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Some Interesting replies all. ?
Nope, .... never felt the need, and as we gained veries the requirement seemed less and less urgent. now with over 200 veries, we think that its completely unnecessary lol
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Well. we've offered you 20+ coffee meets, each time over 5 years... declined. Or busy.. or stuff.
So what's the next one?
You said you could't attend last PV, because of *A*
Yeah, that was years ago...
So, now?
We have accounts on other sites, ones already mentioned on here. We rarely use them now, one we don’t use at all, not as fabulous as it’s says.
We took a break from the scene last year, and when we came back, we came back here. This site is a credit to both the admins and mods. It’s a site where we feel free to chat and express ourselves freely, with true swingers. The threads are informative and get others to engage in conversation.
We took a break from the scene last year, and when we came back, we came back here. This site is a credit to both the admins and mods. It’s a site where we feel free to chat and express ourselves freely, with true swingers. The threads are informative and get others to engage in conversation.
I'm not sure its 20.... but its a few lol
We have never declined, merely explained that we are otherwise engaged. We are blessed (and cursed) with a career each, with different work patterns, and Jayne seems to have developed a penchant for hospital A&E departments, I'm sure she has a secret medical fetish lol.
We are keen to meet you, and many of the members, and I'm sure it will happen at some point.
I know and let us hope that soon! Been what, six years now? Be good to catch up! ?
MOTM
Other sites, yes of course we have looked at other sites, for reasons that may not be obvious, but we have never stayed with them as they don't offer what this sites has.
I see a lot of negativity towards other sites, some deserved, some, less so.
I want to see this site grow, expand, and become the leader, it has the right ethos, and the right team to nurture it.
However, as it grows, it will attract all types of people, they are, mostly after all, swingers (or, at least, potential swingers), some will "get it" others wont. Currently the team here can deal with it...but what about when its twice as big, five times, 10 times....more?
They will run in to the same sorts of problems as other sites, financial (support the site with hard cash folks, you know it makes sense!), moral, political, and personal, and will have to make some sometimes tough calls.
Personally, having been swinging now for around 12 years, we have tried a few other sites, but currently are on two, with a third site which is different, a bit more specialized, but has a lot of our swinger friends popping up on it now.
We are adults, no site will fit us perfectly (although this one comes pretty damn close lol) but we either adapt our approach, or tailor our profile to better improve our experience on a site.
Using words like "mingers" is denigrating the people who use the other sites, some of whom may also be on here already, you may have chatted to them, or interacted in some way, they may even be friends. Dislike the sites, but dont knock the people using them.
I want to see this site grow, expand, and become the leader, it has the right ethos, and the right team to nurture it.
However, as it grows, it will attract all types of people, they are, mostly after all, swingers (or, at least, potential swingers), some will "get it" others wont. Currently the team here can deal with it...but what about when its twice as big, five times, 10 times....more?
They will run in to the same sorts of problems as other sites, financial (support the site with hard cash folks, you know it makes sense!), moral, political, and personal, and will have to make some sometimes tough calls.
Personally, having been swinging now for around 12 years, we have tried a few other sites, but currently are on two, with a third site which is different, a bit more specialized, but has a lot of our swinger friends popping up on it now.
We are adults, no site will fit us perfectly (although this one comes pretty damn close lol) but we either adapt our approach, or tailor our profile to better improve our experience on a site.
Using words like "mingers" is denigrating the people who use the other sites, some of whom may also be on here already, you may have chatted to them, or interacted in some way, they may even be friends. Dislike the sites, but dont knock the people using them.
Most sites have a core of decent people who enjoy the lifestyle and having chatted and met them you realise that they are decent people who enjoy an alternative lifestyle . Most sites are spoilt by men who think they can have what they want when they want . That’s just not the case they really don’t get it .
Wise words and people would be foolish to not take heed.
So, people have discussed other sites, some of us are on them, others are not.
Has anyone experienced an attempt at being "poached"?
Has anyone tried to "poach" others on other sites?
What is the official line on here about people from other sites trying to poach people?
Has anyone experienced an attempt at being "poached"?
Has anyone tried to "poach" others on other sites?
What is the official line on here about people from other sites trying to poach people?
Yes I have indeed there is always people saying join this join that
hey I don't know other swing sites this is first one I joined but it doesn't look like a actual dating site or open people willing to share experiences maybe I'm just unlucky and found only the rude ones... lol anyway if u have a suggestion with a awesome swing site please do tell