People Preferences

[Pearls]

Our advice is just talk about it, what you both want. We spent many evenings fantasising about sharing with others, what we would do, what we want, all sorts, yes’s no’s boundaries. The best piece of advice someone gave us is message people you like the sound/look/profile of and take it from there.

We’re still relatively newbies at this, but we find speaking to people and meeting for a drink/food and chat helps. You can get their perspective on what they like and how they feel. Sometimes what works for one doesn’t for another.
It’s a journey that’s bloody fantastic and everyone’s here to help so any questions fire away.
S xxxxx

 

[Deleted member 3175]

 

[Deleted member 120]

We all have our own specific preferences on what we seek, what we enjoy and maybe what we like in other people.

So with that, do you generally stick to them?
Do you sometimes bend them slightly?

What about other people, do they try to gently persuade you to bend them?
It could be you’re looking only for a gentleman yet couples push.
Maybe you’re a lady not looking to seek a gent but many push and try to convince you otherwise.
Or perhaps a couple and only seeking another couple..

As ever - all yours x

Don’t we always bend the rules at some point? ?

 

[Tiger]

Don’t we always bend the rules at some point? ?

Absolutely, life isn’t black or white there are 50 shades of grey in between

Tiger xx

 

[Deleted member 16044]

Don’t we always bend the rules at some point? ?

rules are meant to be broken well not on here x x x
or are they?
if you mean in the swinging sense
or in the meeting sense
sure x

life is about beauty and all that it beholds
did I break rules last night sure I did x

 

[Deleted member 3411]

It's not so much breaking rules, more making a decision to try something outside your norm. What IS wrong is being pressurised to do it when you don't want to.

 

[Colin]

Rules are made to be broken but it how much you break them that counts