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Phone Sex - Do You Engage With It Or Hang Up On It?

The-A-Team

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Sorry not for us, it's a bit like camming no real profound enjoyment, and why do an imitation when you can easily get the real thing and thoroughly enjoy it, and, also, personally, I feel it's a bit pervy and desperate, I think if all I had left was phone sex, or camming, I would go back to being vanilla and boring. Give me real hard, and flesh every time xxx
Mrs A Team xx
 
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Not particularly for me, maybe with someone I'm really close to and sharing naughty ideas/thoughts.
Can't do it with a stranger. I hate cyber stuff, camming etc, rather do it all in person.
 
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Scrunchy&Muffet

Yes we do it together as in @Admin and I but not with others ;):whistle:
Yeah we have only done with each other but we would never do it with strangers. I once had a guy who wanted to call me and just listen to him wanking and cuming. He said i didnt have to talk...just listen. I politely declined lol xxxx
 

Therapon

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I personally don't mind it.... but what do we all think about it?

Is it a bit old hat now?

Discuss....
Interesting the only members to say they do this are couples.
So my personal thoughts ....
I can't see the attraction myself, same as I don't understand the point of online Dominants. Sex and bdsm are about being there, having a person in the same room, a person you can touch, restrain, flog, caress, kiss and have physical sex with. Similar to ******, why bother, have you something hide? Also as I said elsewhere recently phone/****** calls are easily recorded, do you really want that to happen without your knowledge and do you know if anyone else is listening in.
So no not for me, put simply I just wouldn't trust anyone I didn't know very, very well no matter what assurances they may give, far to many fakes out there. For me sex has to be with a real person, in the same room at the same time.
 

fincon

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Somehow entirely missed this thread.

With the right person, when you’re both in the mood? Oh, yes, oh very much yes. Of course it’s not, and should never been in idea circumstances, a substitute for actual sex, what used to be called… sex. but in the absence of that, or as an additional method of play… sure.

But only if you both enjoy doing it. There’s little less enjoyable than one person just going through the motions to get the other off.

But certainly, if it develops from messaging into phone calls, and you get horny during the call, or it’s something you both enjoy doing, why the hell not do something you both enjoy?

(Usual caveats about my own situation.)
 

Lips_Pearls

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Always engage in it, with my Wifey, on here.
We literally constantly PM each other about sexy n naughty stuffs. Not so much calls per-se of course, but we bombard each other with posts, content, images, GIFs and more. All with each other.
Hell, if we can do it in real time on here and make each other, to the point we're ready to rip each other's clothes off... then why can't anyone else?
You don't need anything else. You need imagination, and a good way of talking.
We have sex daily. Sometimes literally daily - 2-3-4-5 times a day physically - but always on here daily. We have really naughty flanter every day via PMs. We're 20 years in marriage and fucking hell - we work together! If we can do it? Anyone can.
 

fincon

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Used to enjoy it hugely… sometimes in addition to physical sex, sometimes as an alternative, sometimes as merely a way to play with someone in a different geographical location.

There’s two people I know, back from ye olde days, with whom very, very occasionally it’ll still occur. But on rare occasions, only.
 

BiLouJ

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Personally, I have never found phone sex, actually talking on the phone as opposed to texting, does anything for me.

Typing (text) can really work with the right person and as long as it isn’t a substitute for the real thing.
For me, it also depends on the language used .......... some words/phrases can turn me off in a second (there is obviously a prude in me somewhere ha ha).

It also needs to be with someone who lives up to their ‘stories’.
There’s nothing worse than someone having a wonderful imagination, being incredibly articulate and a fantastic story teller only for the reality to be the most boring anticlimactic 20 second encounter ever with absolutely none of their words ringing true!
That’s one good reason not to engage (for me) in sexting until you are sure it is someone who can follow through.
 

MP386

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Personally, I have never found phone sex, actually talking on the phone as opposed to texting, does anything for me.

Typing (text) can really work with the right person and as long as it isn’t a substitute for the real thing.
For me, it also depends on the language used .......... some words/phrases can turn me off in a second (there is obviously a prude in me somewhere ha ha).

It also needs to be with someone who lives up to their ‘stories’.
There’s nothing worse than someone having a wonderful imagination, being incredibly articulate and a fantastic story teller only for the reality to be the most boring anticlimactic 20 second encounter ever with absolutely none of their words ringing true!
That’s one good reason not to engage (for me) in sexting until you are sure it is someone who can follow through.
Talking about it over the phone can be a little awkward if the other person isn’t getting involved or maybe that’s just me :p not getting them going enough :palm:
I have found quite a few women even on a site like this won’t always say what is “hopefully “ in their minds ..:confused: words/phrases that turn you off ?? Do you list them so said person can avoid using them :D or is it like Russian roulette one wrong word and your gone >>>>>> ....
Living up to anyone’s expectations is always a worry , we all say things but is fiction the same as reality :noidy: :noidy:
Sexting/texting is part of the build up to anything that may happen ,I may have made this up but isn’t there a saying “ great sex starts in the mind “
 
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