not at all nope never not I... who are ya again. xxxMy heads so full of work just now but its done now. Bet some folks thought we was either fakes or never gonna do it lol
Nah never... I didn't doubt it for one minute!My heads so full of work just now but its done now. Bet some folks thought we was either fakes or never gonna do it lol
You did i always wondered about you..Nah never... I didn't doubt it for one minute!
Remember; we all held your hand and held you up for a week while Mrs B was away
Never doubted it.
That is other sites and to be honest fakes and time waster don't last long here hunWith many years of swinging, on various sites we have found that both verification by other members and photo verifications has not prevented numerous false profiles and fakers from infiltrating these measures. Not only wasting genuine swingers time , but using this very verification system to lure users into a false sense of security. we have learnt that profile and photo verification are no guarantee of a genuine profile and hence we implement our own system for weeding out the fakes and stalkers.
that's good to knowThat is other sites and to be honest fakes and time waster don't last long here hun
Hi guys, long time no see. Hope all is well.With many years of swinging, on various sites we have found that both verification by other members and photo verifications has not prevented numerous false profiles and fakers from infiltrating these measures. Not only wasting genuine swingers time , but using this very verification system to lure users into a false sense of security. we have learnt that profile and photo verification are no guarantee of a genuine profile and hence we implement our own system for weeding out the fakes and stalkers.
And in honesty, they don't. We work extremely hard at it. Is it 100% foolproof? No. Does it work though? Yes.That is other sites and to be honest fakes and time waster don't last long here hun
Agree completely and couldn't say it better myself!No I'm sorry I don't think it's a good idea to have compulsory photo verification.... after all poor old Admin & Pearls get to see enough horror stories already! In all fairness if there was a problem with people who weren't verifying themselves then perhaps but those who fail to verify yourself just leave that cloud of suspicion over your head which puts people off so is in your own interest to become picture verified so you can prove your legit.
Thanks for the reminder will do it later on for you. I've done some but knew there were others. Will sort it shortly.Can we get photo verified or are we already? Got a verification form both @Admin and @Pearls lol! Just saying!!
I believe that if you are verified or at least met a member of the admin team at a social then that's all that needs to be done to make this site better then all the others...... Which btw it really is!
And do you know why? Because the people on here are Geniune and mostly nice people!! Lol
Mmmm indeedWe have seen loads of reasons posted for this to happen but very little from the no camp. We would love to hear the reasons they voted no and would be curious to see if they are indeed verified on here
It will come as no surprise to you that I know who has voted no, and I am quite surprised myself. So it will be interesting to hear why they voted no, otherwise I have nothing to weigh up.We have seen loads of reasons posted for this to happen but very little from the no camp. We would love to hear the reasons they voted no and would be curious to see if they are indeed verified on here
To be truthful, and am always on the fence, I'm yet to see/read a solid defence as to why not.Only reason I have seen so far is its not worth doing. Well I would say that's like saying I am going to go through this traffic light without looking if its green cos people some times folks go through on red.
At the risk of causing some confusion... I think it is a good idea and this thread spurred me to bite the bullet myself. But as a long-time waverer, I can say that the thing that held me back was the concern about confidentiality. Not that the (fantastic) admin team would use or leak my info, but rather that if the pic was stored and the site was hacked, say. I admit that if PV was required from the get-go I would've been put off, but a 1-month trial solves that point imho, as would a different level of privilege for non-PV users. Hope that helps?!
Fair point well made. Perhaps I found a long way of describing paranoia!Valid point. My only counter would be a PV is normal just a normal picture with user name and date on it. So I suppose they would have proof that you were on here once and your username. But in the grand scheme of things what are they gonna do with that? They wouldn't have any other details for you other than a username to put to a face?