Poll - Centralised Area For Your Personal Meets & Outcomes..

[Admin]

Hi all,
Further to this thread I would like to ask for your votes and input on something..
https://socialswinging.com/threads/safety-on-meets.2211/

The way I see it and after discussing with @Crezy - this idea is actually quite novel.. This is NOT about US being your safety net! This is about us offering you the chance to privately document in a separate forum, which only you the poster and admins can see - your arranged meets and if all went good or not.
But not good we mean as in trouble, not that you didn't play.

By doing this in one sense, it can centralise any issues with any potential people who could be deemed trouble.

Also it adds the possibility for you to leave a record or a trace if you like.
We are not your safety net and nor will we be held accountable as a safety net..
But what this does do is give you the opportunity in your own section, with only yourself and staff having access, to leave a small trace.

So the questions are this.
Do you think it's a good/bad idea
Are you concerned about privacy?
Would you use it and leave notes about your planned meets which could be used should anything untoward go wrong?

In the words of the OP;

Not so much a case of booking back in it's about someone knowing your last possible actions if there was a question of your wellbeing after x
To put it another way,,,,, we have all herd of the sad cases of people going missing and no one can shed any light, well this would be a start if God forbid it happend, and for the family it would, however distasteful this life style maybe to them it gives a start point, and hope,,,,,,,,,,,I don't wish to sound dramatic but this is what I think about, I apologise if it should offend but it would only be voluntary

So please, think carefully if you would use a private area for this.. Also please understand this would be for you to leave a note and possibly mention to us in confidence last location and also about any trouble, and not for us to be accountable for you or your own actions during that day/evening etc.
If the worst should happen, at least some of it can be traced.

Thank you
Admin

 

[Scrunchy&Muffet]

Hi all,
Further to this thread I would like to ask for your votes and input on something..
https://socialswinging.com/threads/safety-on-meets.2211/



The way I see it and after discussing with @Crezy - this idea is actually quite novel.. This is NOT about US being your safety net! This is about us offering you the chance to privately document in a separate forum, which only you the poster and admins can see - your arranged meets and if all went good or not.
But not good we mean as in trouble, not that you didn't play.

By doing this in one sense, it can centralise any issues with any potential people who could be deemed trouble.

Also it adds the possibility for you to leave a record or a trace if you like.
We are not your safety net and nor will we be held accountable as a safety net..
But what this does do is give you the opportunity in your own section, with only yourself and staff having access, to leave a small trace.

So the questions are this.
Do you think it's a good/bad idea
Are you concerned about privacy?
Would you use it and leave notes about your planned meets which could be used should anything untoward go wrong?

In the words of the OP;


So please, think carefully if you would use a private area for this.. Also please understand this would be for you to leave a note and possibly mention to us in confidence last location and also about any trouble, and not for us to be accountable for you or your own actions during that day/evening etc.
If the worst should happen, at least some of it can be traced.

Thank you
Admin

I think I said before I think it's a splendid idea and yeah it will set the is site aside from others. Another safety feature should something awful happen. Let's face it there's always a possibility.
Definitely have our full support on this one. And we would use it xxxxx

 

[Therapon]

It seems like a good idea and yes I'd use it especially when meeting someone new for the first time.

 

[Admin]

As I said overleaf it is a good idea but needs both parties in there to really make it safe.
If only one party is in there and the second isn't, or isn't even photo verified I am sorry to say that there is already a risk and a safe area can't help.
If in doubt
Don't go out!

Stephen

I'm lost this time Stephen sorry..
Both parties in where to make it safe? In a section dedicated to individuals so they can leave notes?

 

[Admin]

Sorry bud We are jumping from one post to another

Ahh yes just seen your other reply.

 

[Admin]

Getting dizzy

If so, try to keep the discussion about what/why/if/and/who on there and this for voting really and any explanation you'd like to add to your vote of choice.

 

[Admin]

So we have some votes on this and so far it's 10 - 3 for.

 

[Scrunchy&Muffet]

So we have some votes on this and so far it's 10 - 3 for.

Great result xx

 

[meet_the_fockers]

Ommm im thinking im thinking. x

 

[Miss-Sexy-Legs]

a very good idea if a meet goes wrong or a repeated no show/time waster others could be potentially be warned by admin id love to see this implemented

 

[Deleted member 2610]

Gets my vote, particularly for the ladies...they need to be kept safe and there are more than a few idiots out there xxx

 

[meet_the_fockers]

Ok @zebo thoughts? Please..

 

[Pearls]

Ok @zebo thoughts? Please..

Ommmm you a naughty naughty girlie

 

[meet_the_fockers]

Ok @zebo thoughts? Please..

Unclicks all lerts

Ommmm you a naughty naughty girlie

Nooo i want his opinion lol

Nooo i want his opinion lol

God so slow @zebo

Hoooorahhhh

 

[zebo]

oh THIS survey

 

[meet_the_fockers]

oh THIS survey

Yes

 

[zebo]

Ok just read through @Admin's description, it does seem like a good idea on the surface, but when you look at it in depth i think its too susceptible to failure, there are a few things that could go wrong with this kind of reporting system, i for one would not be happy using something like this, it smacks too much of gossiping for my liking. It might be a valuable tool if it was used right, but lets face it, there are just too many variables, so my vote is a 'no'

 

[Admin]

It might be a valuable tool if it was used right, but lets face it, there are just too many variables,

It is this which is my major concern.

 

[meet_the_fockers]

Ok just read through @Admin's description, it does seem like a good idea on the surface, but when you look at it in depth i think its too susceptible to failure, there are a few things that could go wrong with this kind of reporting system, i for one would not be happy using something like this, it smacks too much of gossiping for my liking. It might be a valuable tool if it was used right, but lets face it, there are just too many variables, so my vote is a 'no'

Thanks hun. I was curious on your opinion.... x

This is why im.still thinking... and wheying up the pros and cons x

 

[zebo]

Ok if someone logged they were going on a meet, and something went tits up at 3 am, there wouldn't be any staff on here at that time so it would be a few hours before anyone could raise the alarm either

 

[meet_the_fockers]

Ok if someone logged they were going on a meet, and something went tits up at 3 am, there wouldn't be any staff on here at that time so it would be a few hours before anyone could raise the alarm either

This was my intial thought... but re reading its a different issue hun.

 

[Admin]

Ok if someone logged they were going on a meet, and something went tits up at 3 am, there wouldn't be any staff on here at that time so it would be a few hours before anyone could raise the alarm either

Yeah this is not the aim my friend.
It's about being able to log meets and meetings and should anything go wrong, even serious incidents, it can be logged by the member - only they and staff see it, therefore leaving a trail.
This is not incident response, this is offering members a secure and private area where they can make any notes of anything that may have happened which could be untoward, so they have a history of it.

It also enables us to see if there are repeat issues with any given member who could be trouble for the community.

 

[zebo]

I see @Admin, still don't like the idea though, it only takes one bat shit crazy bugger to start posting false allegations and we are in it upto our necks, and how many of those kinds of nutters have we seen over the years ? we are getting into the whole "he said, she said" scenario, and there are going to be the doubtless nonsense reports like he promised me jaffa cakes but he only had custard creams LOL

 

[Pearls]

I see @Admin, still don't like the idea though, it only takes one bat shit crazy bugger to start posting false allegations and we are in it upto our necks, and how many of those kinds of nutters have we seen over the years ? we are getting into the whole "he said, she said" scenario, and there are going to be the doubtless nonsense reports like he promised me jaffa cakes but he only had custard creams LOL

Good point there xx

 

[Admin]

I see @Admin, still don't like the idea though, it only takes one bat shit crazy bugger to start posting false allegations and we are in it upto our necks, and how many of those kinds of nutters have we seen over the years ? we are getting into the whole "he said, she said" scenario, and there are going to be the doubtless nonsense reports like he promised me jaffa cakes but he only had custard creams LOL

Yes this is half the problem..
There's a lot of pro's and cons for this one as it could be hugely beneficial for the community and for the members who use it as they will have a log, but it won't come without problems.. ESP if abused..