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  • Thread starter Clares_Panties
  • Start date 13 May 2015
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13 May 2015
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Clares_Panties

Clares_Panties

PV
You are using the site as a
Your sexual Orientation
  1. BiSexual
Age
40
As we are new to this swinging and looking at our first time hopefully.

What was your first time like? and was it with strangers, or someone you knew?

Clare
 
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13 May 2015
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forest_pete

forest_pete

PV
You are using the site as a
Gent
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  1. Straight
Age
35
Clares_Panties said:
As we are new to this swinging and looking at our first time hopefully.

What was your first time like? and was it with strangers, or someone you knew?

Clare
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Mine was strangers, a couple visiting from America. Was terrified on my way to the hotel. But took my time, socialised first and before I knew it we worth ripping each others cloths off
 
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13 May 2015
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Lace

Lace

PV
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City
Tenby
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  2. Couple-MF
  3. Couple-FF
You are using the site as a
Lady
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  1. Lesbian
  2. Bi-Playful
Age
49
Mine was with strangers in a club and have never seen them since as it was not in this country but had a fantastic time xx
 
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forest_pete

forest_pete

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Shiraz said:
Mine was with strangers in a club and have never seen them since as it was not in this country but had a fantastic time xx
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Why did that turn me on so much xx
 
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Lace

Lace

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Sprtr
City
Tenby
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  2. Couple-MF
  3. Couple-FF
You are using the site as a
Lady
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  1. Lesbian
  2. Bi-Playful
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49
forest_pete said:
Why did that turn me on so much xx
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Mmmm The spontaneity of it all xx
 
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forest_pete

forest_pete

PV
You are using the site as a
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Age
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Shiraz said:
Mmmm The spontaneity of it all xx
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Very true xx
 
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MrT

Mine was a mmf but they weren't a couple, all 3 of us had got chatting online that morning and the other guy was staying in a Dublin hotel that night anyway.
We all met in the bar for a drink and then upstairs. First time for her also and none of us had met before.
Nerves all round but great fun had by all 3 of us.
 
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SQUIRT MAKER

SQUIRT MAKER

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Mine was in a club near Dartford n it was not in a private room,it was in the dance sitting erea amazing
 
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15 May 2015
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Lips_Pearls

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Swansea
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  2. TS
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  2. Curious
  3. Pansexual/Fluid
  4. Bi-Playful
Age
40
Ours developed with friends, which just literally happened naturally to be honest. We had a lot of fun for quite some time actually :D but yes, we knew them, we were extremely good friends and it just happened. Was a very natural things for all of us. xx
 
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15 May 2015
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Leather

MrT said:
Mine was a mmf but they weren't a couple, all 3 of us had got chatting online that morning and the other guy was staying in a Dublin hotel that night anyway.
We all met in the bar for a drink and then upstairs. First time for her also and none of us had met before.
Nerves all round but great fun had by all 3 of us.
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Wow! That's a way to start, definitely xxx
 
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MrT

WetCotton, I suppose it was
But it has left me craving another more involved mmf
 
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16 May 2015
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ride77

mine was with a couple I had been chatting with for a while - shared the same sense of humour and fun - had a great introduction
 
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The-A-Team

The-A-Team

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Playas de Vera
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  2. Gent
You are using the site as a
Couple-MF
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  2. Curious
  3. Bi-Playful
Age
56
Clares_Panties said:
As we are new to this swinging and looking at our first time hopefully.

What was your first time like? and was it with strangers, or someone you knew?

Clare
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Hi, Claire, On our very first time, with A and myself, We chose someone (a couple) we didnt know, so that if Swinging was not going to be our thing, and we did not enjoy it properly, We would not have lost a friendship, as we value our friends immensely. But It is very understandable how these things can easily develop between good friends, and if all works well can become very close, and naturally too, this can help immensely when making love to someone else that first time, but if not controlled could easily spiral into something too close !!

Regards Mark and Andrea xxx
 
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25 May 2015
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sthwalescpl

sthwalescpl

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Brecon
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  3. Couple-FF
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  1. Straight
  2. BiSexual
Age
52
Ours was a couple we had chatted, and then cammed with, on another site years ago.

We got on well, and decided to travel up to meet them in Birmingham, we booked a hotel room.

We met them at a pub, had a few drinks, apart from me who was driving, and then the inevitable question... "Did they want to come back to our room?"
Jayne and I had already both said we liked them... they had gone to the loo together (probably to discuss us like we were discussing them lol) and we had a quick conflab.
They said yes... so we grabbed our car... and hit the room.
We had a sexy board game to play, all of us were nervous, him very much so at first until we had all had a few giggles, kisses etc.
Clothes slowly were shed depending on what we landed on in the game, various forfeits were played, and then we kind of drifted into watching the girls play together (this was a huge fantasy for us, one of the main reasons we got into swinging), and then us guys joined in.
Its fair to say we did a hell of a lot on our first meet, ticked a lot of boxes, and were still at it when the sun came up!
We grabbed breakfast, and drove them to their car... and then we were off on our way home.. with huge grins on our faces lol!
 
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21 June 2015
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Bill-USA-UK

Bill-USA-UK

PV
City
Southampton
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  1. Lady
  2. Couple-MF
  3. Couple-TV-&-F
  4. TS
  5. Couple-TS-&-F
You are using the site as a
Gent
Your sexual Orientation
  1. Straight
  2. BiSexual
  3. Curious
  4. Pansexual/Fluid
  5. Bi-Playful
Age
55
My first was a threesome with my friend and his girlfriend. I'd just moved up to NJ and met up with them both and another couple of friends. We went down to Wildwood and checked into an efficiency. The five of us settled down to sleep. Me, my friend, and his girlfriend, Skeeter in one bedroom and the others in the second room. I had laid down on the floor and had gone to sleep. Next thing I know I've got Skeeter straddling me, asking me if I would like to join them and kissing me. Just kind of went from there! lol That was not just my first threesome, but my first time full stop. Have decided I quite like threesomes!
 
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10 July 2015
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Wolf

Some people go actively looking for that first meet. Some just fall into it by accident. We fell into our first totally unexpectedly one drunken night with friends over before we even knew anything about swinging. It got us thinking though. "That was bloody awesome. I wonder if it will ever happen again?".:)
We didn't rush out and start actively searching but just sort of drifted into swinging over the next couple of years.
No regrets and we have made some fantastic friends along the way and hope to make lots more.
How ever it happens that first time is usually awesome! fantastic! wow did that really just happen!? Then the real exploring begins (y)
 
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30 July 2015
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Deleted member 1030

Our first time was at a club in Swansea. We'd decided to try swinging some months before but hadn't done anything about it, so on a visit to the homeland, we decided to take the plunge. We nearly backed out whilst sat in the pub beforehand. We nearly backed out trying to buy condoms from Spar ("Betty! How much are these johnnys priced at for the young man?":oops:). Then we nearly backed out while sat outside the venue in the car. When we finally plucked up the courage, we were a pair of nervous wrecks stood in a club of (what we thought) sophisticated, urbane swingers who could smell our fear! After an hour of anxious wine-gulping, we decided to go and try one of the rooms. No sooner had Lis stripped me off and bent me over a spanking stool, I looked up to see a guy that she had been chatting to earlier, stood at the door. I motioned for him to join us and things just went from great to mind-bogglingly sexy in the space of about 2 minutes! :threesum: Next thing we knew, the owners were telling us the club was closing!!

We still see him whenever we can ;)
 
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Pearls

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Love it guys and very interesting reply..
Those nerves are a pain in the arse hehe :love::love:xx
 
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23 August 2015
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LadyLily

LadyLily

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Liverpool
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28
I look back on my (ours; it was with my OH) first time with confusion. nothing bad happened,mouth looking back on it even now, I don't feel the warm, fuzzy feeling that others seem to describe. Oh well, just a case of getting back on the horse! ;)
 
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19 September 2015
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TattooTemptation32

TattooTemptation32

You are using the site as a
Gent
Your sexual Orientation
  1. Straight
Age
36
Mine was with a couple who seemed really genuine and down to earth. I was suprisingly confident and took the reigns. Great time with good friends.
 
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19 September 2015
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D7andFLC

I got chatting to a couple online. Meet them for a social, all got and on, so arranged a play date at theirs. I don't get nervous and just tend to dive in. He kept trying to dictate how things should go lol. They'd picked the wrong third for that! It was fun, but I think it ticked their boxes more than it ticked mine. Met them a couple of times after that, but then their personal issues started to surface so I knocked it on the head. D7
 
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meet_the_fockers

D7andFLC said:
I got chatting to a couple online. Meet them for a social, all got and on, so arranged a play date at theirs. I don't get nervous and just tend to dive in. He kept trying to dictate how things should go lol. They'd picked the wrong third for that! It was fun, but I think it ticked their boxes more than it ticked mine. Met them a couple of times after that, but then their personal issues started to surface so I knocked it on the head. D7
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Twasnt me. Just saying like. :eek:
 
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meet_the_fockers

Hmm was a while ago, she was a good freind, she became an even closer freind. ;)
 
19 September 2015
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meet_the_fockers

But the First time I ever played solo with a lady well girl then I suppose... I was 15.. Lol ok not full on tie me up n flog me sesh..
It was girlie fumbling I guess.. Pretty hot and heavy though.. She was a school pal.
 
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Admin

Admin

Admin
Your sexual Orientation
  1. Straight
  2. Bi-Playful
meet_the_fockers said:
But the First time I ever played solo with a lady well girl then I suppose... I was 15.. Lol ok not full on tie me up n flog me sesh..
It was girlie fumbling I guess.. Pretty hot and heavy though.. She was a school pal.
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Isn't that how usually these things happen?
Quite a common occurrence actually..
 
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