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MrT

Mine was a mmf but they weren't a couple, all 3 of us had got chatting online that morning and the other guy was staying in a Dublin hotel that night anyway.
We all met in the bar for a drink and then upstairs. First time for her also and none of us had met before.
Nerves all round but great fun had by all 3 of us.
 
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Mine was a mmf but they weren't a couple, all 3 of us had got chatting online that morning and the other guy was staying in a Dublin hotel that night anyway.
We all met in the bar for a drink and then upstairs. First time for her also and none of us had met before.
Nerves all round but great fun had by all 3 of us.

Wow! That's a way to start, definitely xxx
 
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As we are new to this swinging and looking at our first time hopefully.

What was your first time like? and was it with strangers, or someone you knew?

Clare
Hi, Claire, On our very first time, with A and myself, We chose someone (a couple) we didnt know, so that if Swinging was not going to be our thing, and we did not enjoy it properly, We would not have lost a friendship, as we value our friends immensely. But It is very understandable how these things can easily develop between good friends, and if all works well can become very close, and naturally too, this can help immensely when making love to someone else that first time, but if not controlled could easily spiral into something too close !!

Regards Mark and Andrea xxx
 
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Ours was a couple we had chatted, and then cammed with, on another site years ago.

We got on well, and decided to travel up to meet them in Birmingham, we booked a hotel room.

We met them at a pub, had a few drinks, apart from me who was driving, and then the inevitable question... "Did they want to come back to our room?"
Jayne and I had already both said we liked them... they had gone to the loo together (probably to discuss us like we were discussing them lol) and we had a quick conflab.
They said yes... so we grabbed our car... and hit the room.
We had a sexy board game to play, all of us were nervous, him very much so at first until we had all had a few giggles, kisses etc.
Clothes slowly were shed depending on what we landed on in the game, various forfeits were played, and then we kind of drifted into watching the girls play together (this was a huge fantasy for us, one of the main reasons we got into swinging), and then us guys joined in.
Its fair to say we did a hell of a lot on our first meet, ticked a lot of boxes, and were still at it when the sun came up!
We grabbed breakfast, and drove them to their car... and then we were off on our way home.. with huge grins on our faces lol!
 
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My first was a threesome with my friend and his girlfriend. I'd just moved up to NJ and met up with them both and another couple of friends. We went down to Wildwood and checked into an efficiency. The five of us settled down to sleep. Me, my friend, and his girlfriend, Skeeter in one bedroom and the others in the second room. I had laid down on the floor and had gone to sleep. Next thing I know I've got Skeeter straddling me, asking me if I would like to join them and kissing me. Just kind of went from there! lol That was not just my first threesome, but my first time full stop. Have decided I quite like threesomes!
 
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Some people go actively looking for that first meet. Some just fall into it by accident. We fell into our first totally unexpectedly one drunken night with friends over before we even knew anything about swinging. It got us thinking though. "That was bloody awesome. I wonder if it will ever happen again?".:)
We didn't rush out and start actively searching but just sort of drifted into swinging over the next couple of years.
No regrets and we have made some fantastic friends along the way and hope to make lots more.
How ever it happens that first time is usually awesome! fantastic! wow did that really just happen!? Then the real exploring begins (y)
 
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Our first time was at a club in Swansea. We'd decided to try swinging some months before but hadn't done anything about it, so on a visit to the homeland, we decided to take the plunge. We nearly backed out whilst sat in the pub beforehand. We nearly backed out trying to buy condoms from Spar ("Betty! How much are these johnnys priced at for the young man?":oops:). Then we nearly backed out while sat outside the venue in the car. When we finally plucked up the courage, we were a pair of nervous wrecks stood in a club of (what we thought) sophisticated, urbane swingers who could smell our fear! After an hour of anxious wine-gulping, we decided to go and try one of the rooms. No sooner had Lis stripped me off and bent me over a spanking stool, I looked up to see a guy that she had been chatting to earlier, stood at the door. I motioned for him to join us and things just went from great to mind-bogglingly sexy in the space of about 2 minutes! :threesum: Next thing we knew, the owners were telling us the club was closing!!

We still see him whenever we can ;)
 
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I look back on my (ours; it was with my OH) first time with confusion. nothing bad happened,mouth looking back on it even now, I don't feel the warm, fuzzy feeling that others seem to describe. Oh well, just a case of getting back on the horse! ;)
 
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I got chatting to a couple online. Meet them for a social, all got and on, so arranged a play date at theirs. I don't get nervous and just tend to dive in. He kept trying to dictate how things should go lol. They'd picked the wrong third for that! It was fun, but I think it ticked their boxes more than it ticked mine. Met them a couple of times after that, but then their personal issues started to surface so I knocked it on the head. D7
 
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I got chatting to a couple online. Meet them for a social, all got and on, so arranged a play date at theirs. I don't get nervous and just tend to dive in. He kept trying to dictate how things should go lol. They'd picked the wrong third for that! It was fun, but I think it ticked their boxes more than it ticked mine. Met them a couple of times after that, but then their personal issues started to surface so I knocked it on the head. D7
Twasnt me. Just saying like. :eek:
 
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But the First time I ever played solo with a lady well girl then I suppose... I was 15.. Lol ok not full on tie me up n flog me sesh..
It was girlie fumbling I guess.. Pretty hot and heavy though.. She was a school pal.
 
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But the First time I ever played solo with a lady well girl then I suppose... I was 15.. Lol ok not full on tie me up n flog me sesh..
It was girlie fumbling I guess.. Pretty hot and heavy though.. She was a school pal.

Isn't that how usually these things happen?
Quite a common occurrence actually..