Question for you guys.

kopinov said:

My first experience was through another site, since defunct. I had arranged to meet a younger couple at a pub. We met but after a short time they got a little nervous, so the three of us moved on to a different pub. We chatted over a drink and talked about various things while we decided if we were 'compatible'.

They were new to swinging too but we soon agreed we should go back to their house, where we sat and chatted some more in the lounge. I felt a bit odd as they were continuously checking their mobile phones and, when I asked about it, they told me that if they didn't keep them switched on and answering their texts his psycho mate was likely to take a strop and come round and kick their front door in, regardless of the time of day or night.

I really should have listened to the alarm bells in my head but I was partly distracted by his hand down the front of her track pants and her hips moving as she became more and more aroused as he played with her. It was pretty clear that she wanted to go upstairs to the bedroom right away, but he seemed a bit hesitant.

Eventually, though, we all went up and undressed and got into their bed. I'd expected that they would switch their phones off but they kept looking at them and responding to texts. Despite this, she really enjoyed the attentions of her partner and me together and had several loud and wet orgasms. I also enjoyed her touching me but I couldn't think sufficiently beyond their texting to really get into it.

After a while, after playing with her while he penetrated her, I was offered my turn. Sadly, I still couldn't get past my concerns about the phones (still on and IN the bed) or the idea that some nutter might kick the door in at any time. I couldn't bring myself to do proper justice to the occasion... so I made my apologies and left.

Not really the most auspicious start to my journey, I know, and I regretted not listening to my intuition earlier. I also think it didn't help that we were all completely new to this kind of situation.

So there we are - my first innept and hasty stumble into the world of swinging. On the up side, I've had some wonderful experiences since then... so at least not everything that starts shakily has to continue that way.

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BoltonBiFemCpl said:

Ours was all planned. We picked a couple off a site like this who had quite a few meets under the belt as we thought this would help us as they would lead us. Well what a disaster it was. The fem got very drunk indeed in our house (6 bottles of red) to the point we all started to play but I put a stop to playing as she was in no fit state to agree or otherwise to anything so I was uncomfortable having sex with her.

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Turnuptheheat said:

Although I (Mr) had had some experiences before, we took a long time finding our feet in this world. We'd spoken at length about boundaries, looked online and chatted to some couples before finally biting the bullet and attending a club (VA). First time there we were like rabbits in headlights, it took a few visits just to loosen up and be ourselves. Having still not played with anyone other than ourselves we were invited to a party last summer. As people went off to play later in the evening 3 of the ladies went upstairs, with a couple of guys watching the show from the bedroom door, Mrs Tuth and I joined the voyeurs before one of the ladies in the bedroom beckoned her in.. it turned into a 4 girl and 2 guy play, quite a baptism of fire, we were only soft swap at the time but it was an experience I'll never forget! I'd almost started to think it would never happen but once we'd broken our duck we re-evaluated our boundaries, to pretty much "go with the flow"..

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