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    Really satisfied ?? (BE TRUTHFULL !!)

    Discussion in 'Public Forums' started by The-A-Team, 16 May 2015.

    1. The-A-Team

      The-A-Team PV Registered

      SOME OF YOU GUYS NEED LESSONS

      Ok here is a question based at mainly the ladies,
      (And be brutally honest PLEASE !!) How many of you ladies when on a meet and deeply in the middle of things, With another guy, are left feeling frustrated and like you need that little bit more just to make you cum properly and as your used to, yes it's amazing, exciting, Stimulating, different and fun, but it just does not tick all your boxes for you sexually ?? Yet the other woman is screaming and writhing in total ectacy as your man brings her to dizzy new heights of sexual pleasure, that your used to receiving of him normally, and not getting with the Present Man who your in this meet with now ??? I have grown to accept a certain standard with Mark, that ticks my boxes perfectly, and satisfies my wildest desires, and multiple times too, lol !! But there are occasional times on meets that the guys leave me feeling still in need, and it's annoying knowing that their partner is experiencing what I should be, but unfortunately not whilst in their mans hands.
       
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      • forest_pete

        forest_pete PV Registered

        I do believe its what you are after makes us feel satisfied or wanting more. But its a very good Q and hope people answer honestly
         
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        • The-A-Team

          The-A-Team PV Registered

          Hi Pete,
          don't get me wrong, it's not all the times we swing, but occasionally I do feel a little let down lol, and after all, We are swingers as we are all orgasm junkies be it with our own partners or new ones, the new experience, the different feelings of someone inside you, or you inside them, but I agree, the more you have the more you want xxx X A xxx
           
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          • forest_pete

            forest_pete PV Registered

            I think its down to people being honest and fluid in the situation. No one is the same and as swingers we are open and I will state what feels good. But I do love trying new things as well. I hope it doesn't happen often I love learning a new persons body and kinks x
             
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            • The-A-Team

              The-A-Team PV Registered

              Hmmmm, that's one of the best bits, it's just like a fist date, all exciting, New places to explore, New tastes to taste lol xxx
               
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              • forest_pete

                forest_pete PV Registered

                Like kids in a sweet shop lol. But only with a quality meet I don't just meet anyone x
                 
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                • The-A-Team

                  The-A-Team PV Registered

                  Nor us, We are very selective lol xxx
                   
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                  • forest_pete

                    forest_pete PV Registered

                    Its personality first then chemistry before the sex xx
                     
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                    • The-A-Team

                      The-A-Team PV Registered

                      Hmmmm every time, I need to be turned on visually and psycologically too if all that works, then move forward xxx
                       
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                      • Admin

                        Admin Site Owner Admin

                        Agreed, for us anyway. :)
                         
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                        • Lace

                          Lace PV Registered

                          Well I shall be honest and say have never had that problem...Im a very luck lady xxx(y):p
                           
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                          • The-A-Team

                            The-A-Team PV Registered

                            you are a very lucky lady xxxxx A xxx
                             
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                            • Lace

                              Lace PV Registered

                              I am Andrea and thanks xx
                               
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                              • The-A-Team

                                The-A-Team PV Registered

                                Maybe I need to be less demanding from my partners lol xxxxx but you cant help liking what you like lol xxxxx
                                 
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                                • Lace

                                  Lace PV Registered

                                  Too true and dont settle for any less xx
                                   
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                                  • sthwalescpl

                                    sthwalescpl Registered

                                    Never be afraid or embarrassed about asking a meet to try something new, or do something differently, after all, we are all there to have fun, and who knows, his/her partner may thank you for educating them lol!
                                     
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                                    • Bill-USA-UK

                                      Bill-USA-UK PV Registered

                                      Maybe give the guy some clues as to what you really like. Most guys will respond to the lady they are with. I know for me if the lady reacts, moans etc., I will endeavour to do what ever it is that gets the reaction more and/or better. x
                                       
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                                      • The-A-Team

                                        The-A-Team PV Registered

                                        I would agree, completely, however, it sort of kills spontaneity, and as a woman, I love to be taken and empowered emotionallly, physically, and sexually, and given ultimate satisfaction, but when you have to start drawing diagrams metaphorically, it sort of kills it for me !!, A xxxx
                                         
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                                        • Bill-USA-UK

                                          Bill-USA-UK PV Registered

                                          I didn't mean to imply that you should draw a diagram. I agree it would definitely kill the spontaneity of it all! lol Take care.
                                           
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                                          • Ylangers

                                            Ylangers Registered

                                            Well, I'll share my experience with the matter although it's a bit hard to say...

                                            Sometimes when the other guy is much more endowed than I am, self doubt creeps in. And I find my performance lacking, probably from intimidation :/ . My wife can turn on with anybody, and she always have a good time and the sight of her having her world rocked while I am struggling with the woman I am with always makes me wonder if she is having the thought you mentioned!

                                            With time I have learned to mentally block that thought, it just always stays in the back of my mind.
                                             
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                                            • TownhouseTwosome

                                              TownhouseTwosome VIP Member PV Registered

                                              YES!!!! This has happened on more than one occasion!! My guy is going for it with the other lucky lady and I'm like...I want to be fucked like that!!! lol So following quite a few experiences over the years where I have walked away feeling deflated, I tend to guide the guys. Not like, 'you're doing it wrong' lol but some reassurances of 'yes there' or I get on top and take over temporarily to show him how I like it.
                                              We tend to play with people who we have met before nowadays, so the sex tends to be pretty amazing, but there will always be the odd meet that needs a little assertiveness on my part!!!!! lol :sneaky:
                                               
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                                              • The-A-Team

                                                The-A-Team PV Registered

                                                OOOOOh, I thought it was just me, we do tend to meet quite a lot of new partners, and yes it is in this situation that it happens the most, and yes truthfully, with established friends its soooo more relaxed and intense Thank you for that xxxxx Mrs A Team xx
                                                 
                                              • Troy9

                                                Troy9 Registered

                                                I enjoy 'taking' a woman, especially when its the first time, but I'm also open to her suggestions of how it could be made better for her. Its her orgasms that make it for me.
                                                 
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                                                • The-A-Team

                                                  The-A-Team PV Registered

                                                  hmmmm deep and slow long thrusts
                                                  xxxx so i can feel the guy twitch as he explodes xxx
                                                   
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                                                  • Troy9

                                                    Troy9 Registered

                                                    Mmm good to know ;) x
                                                     
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