Really satisfied ?? (BE TRUTHFULL !!)

I do believe its what you are after makes us feel satisfied or wanting more. But its a very good Q and hope people answer honestly

 

I think its down to people being honest and fluid in the situation. No one is the same and as swingers we are open and I will state what feels good. But I do love trying new things as well. I hope it doesn't happen often I love learning a new persons body and kinks x

 

Like kids in a sweet shop lol. But only with a quality meet I don't just meet anyone x

 

Its personality first then chemistry before the sex xx

 

Well I shall be honest and say have never had that problem...Im a very luck lady xxx

 

I am Andrea and thanks xx

 

Too true and dont settle for any less xx

 

Never be afraid or embarrassed about asking a meet to try something new, or do something differently, after all, we are all there to have fun, and who knows, his/her partner may thank you for educating them lol!

 

Maybe give the guy some clues as to what you really like. Most guys will respond to the lady they are with. I know for me if the lady reacts, moans etc., I will endeavour to do what ever it is that gets the reaction more and/or better. x

 

I didn't mean to imply that you should draw a diagram. I agree it would definitely kill the spontaneity of it all! lol Take care.

 

Well, I'll share my experience with the matter although it's a bit hard to say...

Sometimes when the other guy is much more endowed than I am, self doubt creeps in. And I find my performance lacking, probably from intimidation :/ . My wife can turn on with anybody, and she always have a good time and the sight of her having her world rocked while I am struggling with the woman I am with always makes me wonder if she is having the thought you mentioned!

With time I have learned to mentally block that thought, it just always stays in the back of my mind.

 

YES!!!! This has happened on more than one occasion!! My guy is going for it with the other lucky lady and I'm like...I want to be fucked like that!!! lol So following quite a few experiences over the years where I have walked away feeling deflated, I tend to guide the guys. Not like, 'you're doing it wrong' lol but some reassurances of 'yes there' or I get on top and take over temporarily to show him how I like it.
We tend to play with people who we have met before nowadays, so the sex tends to be pretty amazing, but there will always be the odd meet that needs a little assertiveness on my part!!!!! lol

 

I enjoy 'taking' a woman, especially when its the first time, but I'm also open to her suggestions of how it could be made better for her. Its her orgasms that make it for me.

 

Mmm good to know x