He did some unusual things and, now I think of it, he had a carry all/bag of tricks with him, including some toys that I've only ever seen in photographs. I like to think I'm experienced and then every now and then someone comes along who shows me some new tricks.
No, he tied me up, did some stuff to me and then when I was in a squirming but helpless state of excitement, he hopped on, started riding me and broke out the poppers
True. We both enjoy some bdsm play. Interestingly when we went to the social at Partners a few people were amazed to see a real female dom .... I believe @Miss-Sexy-Legs was asked when were we going back.
I don't mind this in the form of role playing every now and then, on both fronts being dominate and submissive. I don't think I could keep it up all the time though, I like the intimacy of Sensual love making to much. But there is the odd occasion when I get in the mood and the tension gets to the point where it's the only thing for it. Restraint can be empowering, the act of taking control and giving the other person what they really want even if it goes against your nature.