There does seem to be more of a BDSM leaning on here, but that seems to be true in the wider swinging community too, going by what we see at parties etc. Perhaps its just that swinging has developed, or matured, from the "keys in a bowl" early days, and now people are not just looking for more sex, with more people, but more varied sex too. We ourselves cant really claim to be BDSM aficionados, we have some gear, and have played about with it privately, but recently have also become more open to experimenting at parties, mainly down to one particular couple who throw fantastic parties.... and have a cross in their bathroom lol!