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28 June 2017
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What sort of impression do you get that makes you think that person is interested?
Does this come over on here? S xxxx
Friendly banter in DM feeling relaxed with each other and if the conversation gets more suggestive and doesn't feel awkward and one sided then you know they may like you xx
 
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Friendly banter in DM feeling relaxed with each other and if the conversation gets more suggestive and doesn't feel awkward and one sided then you know they may like you xx

Well you know I like you! :X3: S xxx
 
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This and other sites are set up for face to face meets, as a couple we are a bit different we use a code word so we know if we both like the person's we are meeting, then its almost straight to the point "are we your cup of tea" by doing this it saves any emotional feeling on both parties, sometimes its a yes sometimes a no you cant be attracted to all , one thing we learnt is not to take one for the team... cc
 
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Let's just say I hate it when I see people who trample all over peoples profiles with very obvious intentions.
For me I would keep it off profile, send a PM saying hi and see how it turns out.. can honestly say it's worked for me. Tx
 
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Ha!

I mean; it saves time to say what you mean. No-one's getting the hard sell, just a smile, nod and a polite word. We're all adults here.

Thing is I dont think I could say it outright. I find it hard to write what I want to say, so dont want to come across as thick! I even find flirting difficult unless its face to face! Adults - where??? lol xxx
 
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Thing is I dont think I could say it outright. I find it hard to write what I want to say, so dont want to come across as thick! I even find flirting difficult unless its face to face! Adults - where??? lol xxx

don't worry to much about meeting you will known if it feels right, as to messages its so easy to read to far into them, then when you meet and all your expectations fall away..cc
 
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In the lifestyle we all chose to lead ,its never clear cut, single females get bomb barded with pms from single gents and couples ,it can become daunting and make them pull back from interacting.
Single gents get the really rough end of this as the odd rude/crude gent and that includes the male half of couples spoil it by being pushy .
My own experience as taught me to go for it now and yes I'm certainly not everyone's cup of tea, being dominant does put a lot of people off
 
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Oh well interesting thread mrs UHC I'm with you , I am often unsure a lot of the time lol
I really really hate to look silly

It's very different in chat than in person

On the odd occasion I'm left under no illusions .. which sometimes is great while others I think oh feck

Sx
 
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Oh well interesting thread mrs UHC I'm with you , I am often unsure a lot of the time lol
I really really hate to look silly

It's very different in chat than in person

On the odd occasion I'm left under no illusions .. which sometimes is great while others I think oh feck

Sx

I'm hoping for some tips! lol x
 
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Oh well interesting thread mrs UHC I'm with you , I am often unsure a lot of the time lol
I really really hate to look silly

It's very different in chat than in person

On the odd occasion I'm left under no illusions .. which sometimes is great while others I think oh feck

Sx
So now you have every one wondering if they are an “oh feck” :hmm:
 
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Thing is I dont think I could say it outright. I find it hard to write what I want to say, so dont want to come across as thick! I even find flirting difficult unless its face to face! Adults - where??? lol xxx
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