Swinger's Clubs - Carrying Your 'essentials'

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Mingles

Mingles

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Dharrison said:
So how does it normally work for a single guy at a swingers club? Just get chatting to people and see what happens?
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Hi sorry just picked up on this tread :) I'm not going to lie it's harder for a single guy in clubs, but the best advice (other than the comments already given of course) would be to relax, not expect anything, chat with other people in the club with the idea of making friends and anything else that happens will be a bonus! We find that our single guys that visit regularly make friends quite easily and then they often get invited to join others. I think some couples and single ladies like it when they have met the guy a few times first. Having said that we had one situation where we were showing a single guy round (everyone gets a full tour, chat and introduction to other members etc on their first visit) and he got invited into a group already playing upstairs whilst on the tour! I don't think he heard anything else I said after that and had a great night! xxx
 
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Mingles said:
Hi sorry just picked up on this tread :) I'm not going to lie it's harder for a single guy in clubs, but the best advice (other than the comments already given of course) would be to relax, not expect anything, chat with other people in the club with the idea of making friends and anything else that happens will be a bonus! We find that our single guys that visit regularly make friends quite easily and then they often get invited to join others. I think some couples and single ladies like it when they have met the guy a few times first. Having said that we had one situation where we were showing a single guy round (everyone gets a full tour, chat and introduction to other members etc on their first visit) and he got invited into a group already playing upstairs whilst on the tour! I don't think he heard anything else I said after that and had a great night! xxx
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Haha excellent!! :D
 
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Mingles said:
Hi sorry just picked up on this tread :) I'm not going to lie it's harder for a single guy in clubs, but the best advice (other than the comments already given of course) would be to relax, not expect anything, chat with other people in the club with the idea of making friends and anything else that happens will be a bonus! We find that our single guys that visit regularly make friends quite easily and then they often get invited to join others. I think some couples and single ladies like it when they have met the guy a few times first. Having said that we had one situation where we were showing a single guy round (everyone gets a full tour, chat and introduction to other members etc on their first visit) and he got invited into a group already playing upstairs whilst on the tour! I don't think he heard anything else I said after that and had a great night! xxx
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Fantastic indeed :D x
 
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To answer the OP, the main essential is protection. I still can't believe there are clubs out there who 1/don't supply condoms 2/charge for them!!!! So just in case you can't get hold of a condom or you get caught short, carry a supply. I have seen guys tuck them in ther towels or carry a small wash bag.
From a female point of view, I always have a 'play bag'. I have mouthwash, shower gel, condoms of different sizes, lube, (although Townhouse supplies all these free) spare knickers as I tend to lose mine every time, a brush a bobble to keep my hair out of a soaked pussy, a pen and paper for taking usernames and numbers, lippy and mascara as it's usually long gone by the time I'm finished! lol You can see that I take this swinging lark seriously and I was a girl guide! "be prepared" lol xx
 
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I also like to be prepared i always carry
Condoms.....lube....pleasure gel....perfume.....deodrant.....intimate wipes and face wipes....spare stockings....the odd toys.....and anything else i can fit in the bag. Its a large bag lol xx
 
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scrunchymuffet said:
I also like to be prepared i always carry
Condoms.....lube....pleasure gel....perfume.....deodrant.....intimate wipes and face wipes....spare stockings....the odd toys.....and anything else i can fit in the bag. Its a large bag lol xx
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TownhouseTwosome said:
To answer the OP, the main essential is protection. I still can't believe there are clubs out there who 1/don't supply condoms 2/charge for them!!!! So just in case you can't get hold of a condom or you get caught short, carry a supply. I have seen guys tuck them in ther towels or carry a small wash bag.
From a female point of view, I always have a 'play bag'. I have mouthwash, shower gel, condoms of different sizes, lube, (although Townhouse supplies all these free) spare knickers as I tend to lose mine every time, a brush a bobble to keep my hair out of a soaked pussy, a pen and paper for taking usernames and numbers, lippy and mascara as it's usually long gone by the time I'm finished! lol You can see that I take this swinging lark seriously and I was a girl guide! "be prepared" lol xx
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Both Mary Poppins here :D x
 
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Rose has a pretty little 'shag bag,' black with sequins and a long strap so she can put it over a shoulder while in the bar. Contains condoms, lube and a little vibrator. We played with a couple in Chams once and the woman had her stuff in a tatty old supermarket plastic bag, very erotic!
 
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