Swinging Etiquette

[Pearls]

An old one but a good un,
Etiquette in swinging, we have touched on quite a few over the years.
The small little things that mean a lot.
When we started all those years ago everyone new that by following these simple manners they would get respect.
For me personally I’ve watched the scene get taken over by a new generation who simply have no idea the values of swinging.
I want to keep swinging how it should be, it’s not a shag fest of porn. It’s not a cash cow and it’s certainly not dating.
The values of swinging etiquette needs to be kept and respected.

 

[Lips_Pearls]

An old one but a good un,
Etiquette in swinging, we have touched on quite a few over the years.
The small little things that mean a lot.
When we started all those years ago everyone new that by following these simple manners they would get respect.
For me personally I’ve watched the scene get taken over by a new generation who simply have no idea the values of swinging.
I want to keep swinging how it should be, it’s not a shag fest of porn. It’s not a cash cow and it’s certainly not dating.
The values of swinging etiquette needs to be kept and respected.

I agree.
It’s very dog eat dog and shallower than ever.
Most of us all know that someone who casually ignores what the others are doing or trying to achieve.
Now it’s all about instashag, backs of cars, car parks, wanking clubs ??‍
Have some bloody class.

Etiquette is everything in this.

 

[Pearls]

I agree.
It’s very dog eat dog and shallower than ever.
Most of us all know that someone who casually ignores what the others are doing or trying to achieve.
Now it’s all about instashag, backs of cars, car parks, wanking clubs ??‍
Have some bloody class.

Etiquette is everything in this.

And cash..

 

[Lips_Pearls]

And cash..

Yep. Using swinging as a money maker is bullshit.

 

[Skippy01]

It's just getting beyond a joke now.
There's no loyalty or just basic level of respect anymore. Everyone seems to be out for themselves, and it just ruins it for the rest of us, that don't want to be involved with that behaviour.
You have single men getting in pissing competitions every time a single women joins. You have single women who say they want to be involved in the lifestyle, and is looking to meet couples,women etc yet attach themselves to every single man that looks decent and then they just don't actually do anything else. You can't call yourself a swinger if you are incapable of having emotionless connections with people, and pick and choose who you want to be nice to when it suits.People are looking for something they're not going to find, and using swinging as a safety crutch. People need to have a look at themselves and question what they think is acceptable in this lifestyle.Maybe when everyone can be open and honest it can get back to what swinging should be. I don't mean to rant but it's pissing me off now x

 

[Pearls]

It's just getting beyond a joke now.
There's no loyalty or just basic level of respect anymore. Everyone seems to be out for themselves, and it just ruins it for the rest of us, that don't want to be involved with that behaviour.
You have single men getting in pissing competitions every time a single women joins. You have single women who say they want to be involved in the lifestyle, and is looking to meet couples,women etc yet attach themselves to every single man that looks decent and then they just don't actually do anything else. You can't call yourself a swinger if you are incapable of having emotionless connections with people, and pick and choose who you want to be nice to when it suits.People are looking for something they're not going to find, and using swinging as a safety crutch. People need to have a look at themselves and question what they think is acceptable in this lifestyle.Maybe when everyone can be open and honest it can get back to what swinging should be. I don't mean to rant but it's pissing me off now x

So you did mean to rant ??

 

[Skippy01]

So you did mean to rant ??

I did ? I can't be dealing with the shady bullshit anymore.If someone has upset me then they'll know about it. I'm not competing with the singles, when I know how to behave and have fun. It's not making my confidence any better, when people are fucking up my chances of getting sex ? I don't want love.I just want cock and boobs without drama ? x

 

[Pearls]

I’d say it’s difficult for new people getting involved in a scene that stands for good values.
Most involve everyday manners,
Ask permission
Respect
Honesty
Swinging has always been based on good etiquette and I’d say as a couple we’ve stuck to it as best we can.

If you can be kind to others and respectful then it’s win win, if you want to be a plonka then you won’t go far but the basics are simple.

If messaging a couple then talk to both.
it all starts with a message so make it good, if that ends up with a meet then even better.
Don’t be a dick and message others whilst meeting others, you may as well tell the person your shite to their face. Big no no and we’ve seen it with a lady on here.

Verifications are great but be honest, if it wasn’t a good meet then say so, it can avoid future problems. Verifications are extremely important


Remember what you are here for, swinging is fun. Not drama or jealousy. It’s consenting adults meeting for sex. No more.

I would love to see tradition carry on so let’s do just that and show the next generation that it isn’t a sex tinder ?

 

[MP386]

You hit the nail on the head Pearls with this …

Remember what you are here for, swinging is fun. Not drama or jealousy. It’s consenting adults meeting for sex

unfortunately some don’t seem to understand this ..

 

[MaleMan]

I did ? I can't be dealing with the shady bullshit anymore.If someone has upset me then they'll know about it. I'm not competing with the singles, when I know how to behave and have fun. It's not making my confidence any better, when people are fucking up my chances of getting sex ? I don't want love.I just want cock and boobs without drama ? x

I can offer you 50% of what you require, If someone wants to offer the other 50% we can negotiate terms ?

 

[Skippy01]

I can offer you 50% of what you require, If someone wants to offer the other 50% we can negotiate terms ?

I'm willing to accept just the 50% tbh ? minimum effort can also be in the terms of negotiations aswell,if it helps me ? x

 

[MaleMan]

I'm willing to accept just the 50% tbh ? minimum effort can also be in the terms of negotiations aswell,if it helps me ? x

the negotiations were for the third party boobage, we can forego those talks x

 

[Skippy01]

the negotiations were for the third party boobage, we can forego those talks x

Pleasure doing business with you ? x

 

[MaleMan]

Pleasure doing business with you ? x

Ever the consummate professional, hope to consummate our business partnership at your earliest convenience ? x