Take The Hint?

[Marky191268]

Damn I was hoping you would

 

[Therapon]

Damn I was hoping you would

Lucky escape

 

[Pearls]

Lucky escape

 

[Deleted member 3289]

I find the trouble with hints is that like most people you're so tuned to the world of vanilla etiquette that you miss the hints as you're not looking for them. To be honest I think Linda and I would welcome just Direct talk. Not everybody will be our cup of tea and vice versa but I'd much rather politely say sorry but no thanks then find a couple we both like very much had dropped us hints and we hadn't noticed.

Fascinating. Does anyone else like subtle, flirtatious honesty? Or is that all very Cornish... sorry I mean vanilla...

 

[Therapon]

Fascinating. Does anyone else like subtle, flirtatious honesty? Or is that all very Cornish... sorry I mean vanilla...

I think that is probably a thread in itself but yes I do.

 

[Deleted member 3289]

I think that is probably a thread in itself but yes I do.

I see it like enjoying trading hints...with honesty always...but not that shoot 'em between the eyes type!

 

[meet_the_fockers]

Yeah, gossiping is shit... But without it I wouldn't have learnt some need to know information about choice individuals (but no one here).

I get what you said @meet_the_fockers, but sometimes it takes more than a hint for me to pick up on interest.

I dont know what you mean?

 

[meet_the_fockers]

I dont know what you mean?

Are you hinting?

 

[meet_the_fockers]

I see it like enjoying trading hints...with honesty always...but not that shoot 'em between the eyes type!

ready aim....

 

[meet_the_fockers]

Are you hinting?

Right im off before she.. bollocks me.. she scares me.

 

[NotSoFireproof]

Right im off before she.. bollocks me.. she scares me.

Me?!

 

[Deleted member 1402]

Right im off before she.. bollocks me.. she scares me.

Yea, stop thread hijacking

 

[meet_the_fockers]

Me?!

yerz

 

[Adam]

Okay, so here's a question.

I always insist upon open and honest communication, even if that means talking about the obvious stuff a little (just because it's obvious to me, doesn't mean it's obvious to anyone else!).

For those that rely on giving or understanding hints, how many of you have realised after the fact that the hint was not understood?

For me open and honest, and thats not just in this environment but in all areas of my life including work...however, it seems that Im in the minority which is a shame I think x

 

[NotSoFireproof]

Definitely a shame, I agree. I'm of the same mindset but some people aren't wired that way, it seems.

 

[Adam]

Definitely a shame, I agree. I'm of the same mindset but some people aren't wired that way, it seems.

Its the only way to be! It is a shame - Indeed x

Definitely a shame, I agree. I'm of the same mindset but some people aren't wired that way, it seems.

Its nice to see you back here again by the way How is the uni work coming on? x

 

[ShhhAgonyAunt]

Okay, so here's a question.

I always insist upon open and honest communication, even if that means talking about the obvious stuff a little (just because it's obvious to me, doesn't mean it's obvious to anyone else!).

For those that rely on giving or understanding hints, how many of you have realised after the fact that the hint was not understood?

I would agree with your view on openness and giving hints, and one persons idea of a thing been different to that of another's, and agree totally that upfront honesty should always happen, especially within swinging, as less complications arise out of honesty, and any doubts are diminished early on in a new additional fun relationship. But alas, many peoples hints fall on deaf ears causing problems that are emotionally hard to sort. Keep it simple and tell it as it is,
@ShhhAgonyAunt