Taking one for the team

[Tiger]

You’ve found what you believe to be the perfect match, you’ve been chatting with that couple, single lady or gent for months, the excitement is building you’ve arranged the perfect day, date & location!

The day arrives, you can barely contain your excitement & then you all meet for the first time in real life! You breathe a sigh of relief! They look exactly as they do in their profile, happy days, could this day get any better.

The drinks begin to flow and as the night progresses their true persona begins to come through, something is just not sitting right, you can’t put your finger on it, there’s just something a little off.

It’s decision time! do you take one for the team?

If your a couple do you go ahead because your partner wants it?

Maybe your a single female or male, but the vibe with one or the other just isn’t there!

Do you still go ahead with it?

Have you? Would you? Could you?

Tiger xx

 

[Deleted member 11852]

No, we would not take one for the team. If it’s not right for both of us it doesn’t go ahead xx M

 

[Guru G]

What's a meet ?

 

[Pearls]

There is a broad spectrum to that question and one that can’t be answered without knowing the scenario. So I guess it’s a don’t know, yes, no. But saying yes is also wrong regarding “taking one for the team” so in honesty I can’t give an answer in general though. No

 

[Guru G]

You’ve found what you believe to be the perfect match, you’ve been chatting with that couple, single lady or gent for months, the excitement is building you’ve arranged the perfect day, date & location!

The day arrives, you can barely contain your excitement & then you all meet for the first time in real life! You breathe a sigh of relief! They look exactly as they do in their profile, happy days, could this day get any better.

The drinks begin to flow and as the night progresses their true persona begins to come through, something is just not sitting right, you can’t put your finger on it, there’s just something a little off.

It’s decision time! do you take one for the team?

If your a couple do you go ahead because your partner wants it?

Maybe your a single female or male, but the vibe with one or the other just isn’t there!

Do you still go ahead with it?

Have you? Would you? Could you?

Tiger xx

To answer the question though no I wouldn't. I'd like to think personality wise I would know enough beforehand with chatting that their personality wouldn't put me off. As long as they weren't too different from their pics hopefully it would go well unless they had bad breath or ankle socks

 

[Guru G]

There is a broad spectrum to that question and one that can’t be answered without knowing the scenario. So I guess it’s a don’t know, yes, no. But saying yes is also wrong regarding “taking one for the team” so in honesty I can’t give an answer in general though. No

So yes or no

 

[Jaynerobert]

A ‘little’ off - probably (honestly) wouldn’t put us off if we felt we were in a safe environment. Definite no no for one of us would be a no for both. Like @Pearls we have just discussed this and said that there are too many ifs, buts and maybes to say a clear yes or no.

 

[Pearls]

So yes or no

Well no but if we’re talking about a mild altercation of whatever that may be then chin chin and enjoy. I guess But in general no
What’s wrong with ankle socks

 

[Pearls]

A ‘little’ off - probably (honestly) wouldn’t put us off if we felt we were in a safe environment. Definite no no for one of us would be a no for both. Like @Pearls we have just discussed this and said that there are too many ifs, buts and maybes to say a clear yes or no.

So you know what I’m saying

 

[Jaynerobert]

So you know what I’m saying

Totes!

 

[Pearls]

Totes!

Expensive they are, I’ll stick with ankle socks from primark 99p

 

[Jaynerobert]

Expensive they are, I’ll stick with ankle socks from primark 99p

But so toasty. ?

 

[Guru G]

Well no but if we’re talking about a mild altercation of whatever that may be then chin chin and enjoy. I guess But in general no
What’s wrong with ankle socks

Thanks for clearing that up still none the wiser what isnt wrong with them, they're demon spawn

 

[Pearls]

Thanks for clearing that up still none the wiser what isnt wrong with them, they're demon spawn

So no then. Maybe

#cosy

 

[Guru G]

So no then. Maybe
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#cosy

. They're not too bad mun at least they're about above the ankle. These are what put me off.

Gen could spew looking at that

 

[Deleted member 17925]

. They're not too bad mun at least they're about above the ankle. These are what put me off.View attachment 75427

Gen could spew looking at that

Maybe your concentrating on the wrong things my friend !! ? ...... If everything else is ? ......then sod the socks !! ??

 

[Guru G]

Maybe your concentrating on the wrong things my friend !! ? ...... If everything else is ? ......then sod the socks !! ??

Deal breaker for me bud ?

 

[Deleted member 17925]

Deal breaker for me bud ?

Jeez, I must be bloody blasey ..... I don't even make deals before sex !! Not even a handshake ??

 

[MP386]

This may not be the popular answer, but from the single you have engaged with a couple in messages,you have taken the decision to meet , now as a bloke who isn’t interested in men would it put me off having fun with the partner ? Don’t think it would if I’m honest the female side of the couple holds the most interest.... sorry Gents
so different scenario I’ve been lucky enough to go somewhere with a single lady .... knowing her desire for a three or moresome , would I stand in the way of that if someone was keen to join us and was engaging with us through the evening and it was what she wanted...the answer is no I would happily go along with it even if the bloke was a bit of a knob to me .... but they would have to have made it know to me they would be interested in join us .... no different if the shoe was on the other foot I’d have to express my interest in joining them ....

 

[Deleted member 11852]

I have to agree with Mrs h.. This was one of the things we discussed when we entered into this lifestyle.. Non of us would expect the other to do something they didn't want to.. We have moved our boundaries quite a bit since joining but that is definitely something we won't change.. W..

 

[Guru G]

Jeez, I must be bloody blasey ..... I don't even make deals before sex !! Not even a handshake ??

Need to be dossier

 

[Guru G]

This may not be the popular answer, but from the single you have engaged with a couple in messages,you have taken the decision to meet , now as a bloke who isn’t interested in men would it put me off having fun with the partner ? Don’t think it would if I’m honest the female side of the couple holds the most interest.... sorry Gents
so different scenario I’ve been lucky enough to go somewhere with a single lady .... knowing her desire for a three or moresome , would I stand in the way of that if someone was keen to join us and was engaging with us through the evening and it was what she wanted...the answer is no I would happily go along with it even if the bloke was a bit of a knob to me .... but they would have to have made it know to me they would be interested in join us .... no different if the shoe was on the other foot I’d have to express my interest in joining them ....

Thought you was working mp

 

[Guru G]

Need to be dossier

Fussier

 

[DandDforfun]

What one person thinks as a no, another may not be bothered about - but for us as a couple if one of us says no then it’s a no from both of us. We came into the scene together, - so we play together or not at all ??

 

[Mr and Mrs Marmite]

of something doesn't feel right then ae would not progress any further than a social drink.

We are probably the world's worst swingers for our way of doing things... social more than play, its like making a cake, first you need to make the friendships... the icing and cherry come after time...