The Chase, Or The Catch?

[Lips_Pearls]

In swinging and especially on this site - there's a lot of communication that goes back and fore between swingles, couples and so on...
From cybersex, to raunchy flirtiness, subtle hints... a sly bit of flirting, or even those naughty messages where you know damn well the click is happening and it's heating up.

Remembering, the chase can be equally as erotic and exciting as the catch.
But sometimes that catch may slip through the net too!

But what gets you going the most?
The chase, or the catch.

 

[Therapon]

Timely. We were chatting about this the other day following the posting of another thread. Anyway I enjoyed the chase, the inuendo, the playing hard to get and the laughs along the way. Also the fact that this was not one sided.
Having said that, the catch, well we are having fun. I guess in my case I honestly cant say which was more fun.

 

[Lips_Pearls]

Timely. We were chatting about this the other day following the posting of another thread. Anyway I enjoyed the chase, the inuendo, the playing hard to get and the laughs along the way. Also the fact that this was not one sided.
Having said that, the catch, well we are having fun. I guess in my case I honestly cant say which was more fun.

Thank you, that's a very open and honest answer..

 

[No longer with us]

Definitely the chase
Love the flirting and teasing
Many don't result in a meet but alot of fun has been had along the way
Although our catches have been amazing as well !!

 

[Lips_Pearls]

Definitely the chase
Love the flirting and teasing
Many don't result in a meet but alot of fun has been had along the way
Although our catches have been amazing as well !!

Argh dilemma... I want to rate this as feel the love and disappointed at the same time! xx

Love the flirting and teasing

Amazing isn't it... x

 

[No longer with us]

Argh dilemma... I want to rate this as feel the love and disappointed at the same time! xx

Why?
All is good xxx

 

[Lips_Pearls]

Why?
All is good xxx

Many don't result in a meet but alot of fun has been had along the way

don't we all like it when things happen?
And I am sure it is! xx

 

[meet_the_fockers]

The chase for sure.
And has for us resulted in some pretty neat catches.
But if anyone chases me, I run for the hills kicking and screaming.. this is the ONLY time.. i get tongue tied..

 

[thecuteguy]

Both

 

[Bump-n-Grind]

Ideally the chase & catch in equal measures

 

[Terryg]

I'd plump for the chase......but enjoy the catch later...given the chance

 

[Lips_Pearls]

Both

Ideally the chase & catch in equal measures

Of course, but these are very generic "ideal world" posts gentlemen.

 

[Lips_Pearls]

Both

Ideally the chase & catch in equal measures

Of course, but these are very generic "ideal world" posts gentlemen.

Am sure you can do better to tantalise those possibly reading this?

 

[Bump-n-Grind]

Of course, but these are very generic "ideal world" posts gentlemen.

Ok to elaborate, a great chase without a great catch is disappointing & is there such a thing as a great catch without a great chase?

 

[thecuteguy]

Of course, but these are very generic "ideal world" posts gentlemen.

In an ideal world then yes. In our mixed up muddled up word then it depends on the person, like everything. One could be an amazing chase where as the other might be an amazing catch.

 

[thecuteguy]

Ok to elaborate, a great chase without a great catch is disappointing & is there such a thing as a great catch without a great chase?

There is such a thing. But you need lotto luck for it.

 

[Lips_Pearls]

is there such a thing as a great catch without a great chase?

Yes

In an ideal world then yes. In our mixed up muddled up word then it depends on the person, like everything. One could be an amazing chase where as the other might be an amazing catch.

Absolutely.... so dependant on whom/what/when/where/if ... indeed. :hmm:

 

[Looby&Lew]

I love the chase before the catch. Flirty sexy chat is a massive turn on and adds to the anticipation of a meet. Anything that feeds the mind first adds to the final result x (Looby)

 

[thecuteguy]

I love the chase before the catch. Flirty sexy chat is a massive turn on and adds to the anticipation of a meet. Anything that feeds the mind first adds to the final result x (Looby)

The mind is the biggest erogenous zone.

 

[Looby&Lew]

The mind is the biggest erogenous zone.

Definitely x

 

[Bump-n-Grind]

There is such a thing. But you need lotto luck for it.

For me there can't be, the mind needs to be stimulated by an element of chase or something like that before the catch.
But as they say, different strokes for different folks

 

[thecuteguy]

Definitely x

Massage my brain and I'll massage what ever you want

 

[Looby&Lew]

Massage my brain and I'll massage what ever you want

Now there's an offer.....

 

[thecuteguy]

Now there's an offer.....

 

[Lips_Pearls]

For me there can't be, the mind needs to be stimulated by an element of chase or something like that before the catch.
But as they say, different strokes for different folks

Well yes and that's exactly it, isn't it? If you stimulate the mind - make the chase, make the flirt, engage in mental flirtation then that's a start, from there progression. Although indeed no luck, it is or it isn't. Is that it?

I love the chase before the catch. Flirty sexy chat is a massive turn on and adds to the anticipation of a meet. Anything that feeds the mind first adds to the final result x (Looby)

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Exactly... that's where it is isn't it? x