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Yes, agreed. It doesn't happen very often, to be fair, so don't have nightmares as they say on TVHowever, forewarned is forearmed - and we do keep an eye out for such cases
Not at all guys.. some great points.. i dont claim to know everything.. re swinging and even less re, BDSM... even though ive been around the block a fair few times.. so everyones opion to me, is of great interest.. monopolising.. and manipulate not two of my favorite words.. Fascinating stuff.. so much to learn. XWhat an interesting post. We do not think it applies to either of us two as a couple however it is a very informative piece and quite fascinating. When does domination become abuse? How fine a line is it?
As a rule of thumb we would say if it's consensual and all parties are happy then it's probably genuine but how to tell if someone's been manipulated and aren't happy? We don't know.
Would you interfere if you thought a Dom had gone too far with a Sub? If we came across anything that concerned us we would probably come to the SS community for advice.
Also pardon our ignorance if we have said something stupid regarding this subject, it's not something we're deeply knowledgeable in.
BNK XXX
Which is great to know as such people could be just around the corner or even lying in wake amongst usYes, agreed. It doesn't happen very often, to be fair, so don't have nightmares as they say on TVHowever, forewarned is forearmed - and we do keep an eye out for such cases
Which is great to know as such people could be just around the corner or even lying in wake amongst us
Yes, agreed. It doesn't happen very often, to be fair, so don't have nightmares as they say on TVHowever, forewarned is forearmed - and we do keep an eye out for such cases
Well hello you.. and where on Earth do you think you have been hmm. XThis was exactly what I was trying to achieve in my ramblings. Not to be alarming atall but just make those with an interest aware that such things do happen on occasion. It is much easier to deal with if you have prior knowledge.
What an interesting post. We do not think it applies to either of us two as a couple however it is a very informative piece and quite fascinating. When does domination become abuse? How fine a line is it?
As a rule of thumb we would say if it's consensual and all parties are happy then it's probably genuine but how to tell if someone's been manipulated and aren't happy? We don't know.
Would you interfere if you thought a Dom had gone too far with a Sub? If we came across anything that concerned us we would probably come to the SS community for advice.
Also pardon our ignorance if we have said something stupid regarding this subject, it's not something we're deeply knowledgeable in.
BNK XXX
Which is great to know as such people could be just around the corner or even lying in wake amongst us
Well hello you.. and where on Earth do you think you have been hmm. X
I have a very very good friend who is a dominant very respectful gent and as well as any written word of consent he also videos the whole conversation with all parties involved so there is a clear outline from the start of how far they the submissive would like to take their limits to ,
Ok I shall let it slide this time..Work and RL stopped play for a bit
We don't always get time to take an active role contributing but we're always lurking somewherexxxx
Ok I shall let it slide this time..
You need to learn to do as you are told
I was quite surprised to actually learn it was his submissive partner who asked for video to be usedDoesn't surprise me atall. A reasonable option if its available. It would seem overkill to some but I quite like my liberty and freedom. Even though that would not protect him totally it would have to help in many ways.
I was quite surprised to actually learn it was his submissive partner who asked for video to be used
subs are far from vulnerable and are very strong, most mistake this factExcellent article, I would not have included knowing every detail of a Subs life, but enough to know
they are safe and what may be troubling them and fixable,
The whole Dom description has been generally exaggerated in the swinging media ( not here ) suggesting an instant label to obtain aggressive shags, when I was first asked out of the blue by a level headed not vulnerable woman
to be her Master it scared me and turned me on and continues to do so, but alas at this time I do not have a Sub.
Whether I am genuine or not I do not know, but I do know I do not work at it .
Sadly it takes a lot of trust from the sub, it's not something that can just happen.So if there is a potential sub for me out there please contact me.
Perfect xFortunately I do not need anything to just happen, vanilla for me is Ok, geographically nearer vanilla the purpose
of my being here would be nice buy anything with depth as in Sub/Dom is a different matter.
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