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To most people, the idea of BDSM seems like a twisted way to love. Some have a perception that it is an activity meant for people who like to take advantage of others, or people who love being taken for granted.
However, this is not true. You couldn’t be further from the truth with this kind of ideology. Members who practice BDSM cannot get enough it!

There are people who are in the fetish for a lifetime, while others just want to get in, hit, and run. Either way, the benefits of BDSM are numerous, explaining why some people will find it hard to quit.

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What are the joys of BDSM?

If there was one satisfactory answer, then it would be “many”. Life is short. Life is boring, too, especially if you do not go the extra mile to enjoy that which you have. Most people quit very successful relationships due to boredom. Why not spice up your relationship. In fact, boring relationships are the number one reason why people tend to run away from them in the first place.

Everybody or most people are affected sexually by something else other than attraction to the genital parts of the body. It might be sexy red lingerie that does it for you or a clever dirty talk from your partner. If these two examples are what turn you on, then you are part and parcel of BDSM.

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People with apparent penile dysfunction have been surprised when it turned out that it was just in their mind! If you think this is not real, try some form of BDSM when you least want to have sex. Results are guaranteed. This is a mind blowing phenomenon. One that you definitely don’t want to miss out on.

It is groundless to imply that people highly interested in BDSM were mistreated as kids. This is misleading. There is no doubt that a very high percentage of BDSM relationships thrive. Most of these relationships are guaranteed of emotional health for the partners.


Jealousy is the mother of all evil. If you want to have a very short lived relationship with your partner, then try to be red eyed jealous. Though at first it seems like a very normal thing, sometimes making your partner flattered, this is a time bomb that never fails to explode. As a person who believes in, and practices BDSM, you are sure that jealousy will be eroded. For the young in love, try this, and see how effective it is!

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BDSM encourages people to role-play. As a human being of a particular gender, several things are expected of you. For instance, as a man, you are expected to be in control, to be in power. You are not allowed to give up that power or control, even for a second.

Some women want a man to take control in and out of the bedroom. This is encouraged in BDSM and with your sexual partner, you will feel free. You will feel empowered.
You will be a successful explorer in the exciting world of sexual fantasy.

There is no doubt that most people have a fetish idea cross their mind when they are having sex with their partners.
BDSM believers are those people who do not fear.

It is for those people who are not willing to let anything stand in their way to sexual freedom and total satisfaction. BDSM is not simply a vague fetish sexual ideology; rather, it is a mind growing, satisfying experience for its believers.
Enjoy to the fullest what you are entitled to as a human being!
Get going, meet your Dom/Sub today!
 
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Having been a Dom for 17 years I have found more people are open to the idea of BDSM. I do many demos at clubs and the most popular seems to be sensual play rather than the extreme BDSM as in the past. But it's certainly great to draw in a crowd and usually a few ask for a demo...
 
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There are a lot of misconceptions in this field..
I don't think its all about a whip and rope,for me the whole dom,sub is a lot more.Respect is a big part and not only a true sub will always show respect to the dom but a true dom will never step over the boundaries of the sub.
Agreed power can never be given up and control is a must and with the right connection physically and mentally you have the most amazing tantric experience you will ever have.

Yes restraint with the correct use is a must in the relationship, as for extreme..With the trust in place and if you know what you are doing without putting anyone in danger It will be the most sexually satisfying experience you will ever have.:whipping:
 

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I've been into bondage for a very long time. A lot of it was "self" bondage when I'd masturbate (wow what an orgasm!). When I got with my g/f we did all sorts of BDSM stuff and it was awesome! Love it!
 
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I've been into bondage for a very long time. A lot of it was "self" bondage when I'd masturbate (wow what an orgasm!). When I got with my g/f we did all sorts of BDSM stuff and it was awesome! Love it!
Love the reply Mr Vex xx
 
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Sub/Dom. Sub women in my experience are very strong minded and choose to be Sub, it makes them feel good to relinquish trust to a so called Dom, and it works both ways in that the Dom trusts the Sub to obey rather than just say sex and travel to you mate.
The nature of the relationship various as all relationships can however the principle is mutual trust and the ability
to pursue all fantasy using your Sub within agreed guidelines and with a stop code.
It really does mean no assumptions and discuss especially anything involving pain or real restraint.
Subs vary from the pain in the head Subs that require 24/7 control to those who you can use as you wish
when meeting in private. The last thing to think is that a sub is weak or inadequate, they are just wired up
a little differently especially those that genuinely convert pain administered to pleasure which requires considerable
care by the administrator. Oh please if a Sub exists near me please get in touch.
 
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Sub/Dom. Sub women in my experience are very strong minded and choose to be Sub, it makes them feel good to relinquish trust to a so called Dom, and it works both ways in that the Dom trusts the Sub to obey rather than just say sex and travel to you mate.
The nature of the relationship various as all relationships can however the principle is mutual trust and the ability
to pursue all fantasy using your Sub within agreed guidelines and with a stop code.
It really does mean no assumptions and discuss especially anything involving pain or real restraint.
Subs vary from the pain in the head Subs that require 24/7 control to those who you can use as you wish
when meeting in private. The last thing to think is that a sub is weak or inadequate, they are just wired up
a little differently especially those that genuinely convert pain administered to pleasure which requires considerable
care by the administrator. Oh please if a Sub exists near me please get in touch.
Agreed 100%
 
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Sub/Dom. Sub women in my experience are very strong minded and choose to be Sub, it makes them feel good to relinquish trust to a so called Dom, and it works both ways in that the Dom trusts the Sub to obey rather than just say sex and travel to you mate.
The nature of the relationship various as all relationships can however the principle is mutual trust and the ability
to pursue all fantasy using your Sub within agreed guidelines and with a stop code.
It really does mean no assumptions and discuss especially anything involving pain or real restraint.
Subs vary from the pain in the head Subs that require 24/7 control to those who you can use as you wish
when meeting in private. The last thing to think is that a sub is weak or inadequate, they are just wired up
a little differently especially those that genuinely convert pain administered to pleasure which requires considerable
care by the administrator. Oh please if a Sub exists near me please get in touch.
Good post Sir (y)
 
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I find it hard work. Being a dom isn't my natural setting, although I can sometimes get in the mood. The idea of being a sub is just ridiculous to me.

That said, it can take you to very strange places.
 
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Sub/Dom. Sub women in my experience are very strong minded and choose to be Sub, it makes them feel good to relinquish trust to a so called Dom, and it works both ways in that the Dom trusts the Sub to obey rather than just say sex and travel to you mate.
The nature of the relationship various as all relationships can however the principle is mutual trust and the ability
to pursue all fantasy using your Sub within agreed guidelines and with a stop code.
It really does mean no assumptions and discuss especially anything involving pain or real restraint.
Subs vary from the pain in the head Subs that require 24/7 control to those who you can use as you wish
when meeting in private. The last thing to think is that a sub is weak or inadequate, they are just wired up
a little differently especially those that genuinely convert pain administered to pleasure which requires considerable
care by the administrator. Oh please if a Sub exists near me please get in touch.
Yes - it's all about the sub, basically, and the trust given to the dom
 
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Hello apparently im a little.. hmmm I forgive, i never forget..
 
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Maybe you could share this wonderful experience with us.
Are you sitting comfortably?

There was one time with a blindfold, some light restraints, a cigar and one of those blowtorch lighters.

For instance.