Well..... I was going to say, that what man doesn't appreciate a lady masturbating.come on then lets hear it
Most men enjoy seeing the lady in their company, highly aroused and teasing themselves, often bringing themselves to orgasm then stopping, then actually enjoying it for what it is..
As you said, ladies love men doing the same too.
On their backs, gland in hand, giving some rather drooling entertainment for the lady in their company - and why not. Both of us - men and women, enjoy seeing the other pleasure themselves.
not only is it highly erotic, but it's teaching us how to pleasure the other...
Can get steamier when during sex in doggy position, the lady masturbates at the same time.. Now that is steamy. Especially when giving a small reach up at the same time to feel your member.
Phew.
Not representative of the site, just my personal opinion as expressed.