Would (or have) you paid for sex?

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4 October 2015
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Heres an interesting one I was having a discussion about with my friends recently that divided the group.

I'm of the opinion that it's Ok to pay for sex, although I never have.
But then again it has been a while for me haha!

I expect it'll be a pretty even split here too but will be interesting to hear your thoughts.
 
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I've never had to or needed to, but I don't disagree with it necessarily....
I know of some peeps who've literally paid a lady to join them in a threesome so the anonymity remains and it's in, have fun, out and job done with no string or comebacks..
Not a bad thing at all I think, but ethically for the ladies, well that's a different subject matter completely.. :)
Just my tuppence worth (y)
 
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One of the females in the discussion just flat out refused to admit it was acceptable.
I think she thought they were all crack whores riddled with STDs or something.
 

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Well that's ignorance for you.. (sorry)
a lot of these ladies are quite determined, intelligent and actually have high aims and ambitions..!!
Not an overwhelming majority, but a lot do and have much bigger aims in life for themselves. ;)
 
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This is a thread I have been waiting for and you are right, there will be a divide, its one of the oldest professions we have and I for one have never been against prostitution. I have never paid for sex as never needed to, I have a lot of respect for working girls and know a few, many people will say its easy money but in reality its far from the truth.
They have a tough job that comes with many risks and face these daily, myself and @Admin know of a lady who purposely put her self in a rape situation with a client, she now feels she stopped him from doing something he may regret later, never the less she put her self in that situation and it is graphic, for money.
I say good luck to these girls and they should always be shown respect.:love::love:
 
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No I don't think it's wrong. There are so many different situations, yes it would be wrong, if you were intentionally, hurting someone ie a loving partner and it was without their knowledge, I've never paid, I've been lucky enough to not be in that situation. Would I consider being paid for sex? Damn!!!! right I would, but only as a last resort.. To put food on my table. But I think most mothers would.
 
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No I don't think it's wrong. There are so many different situations, yes it would be wrong, if you were intentionally, hurting someone ie a loving partner and it was without their knowledge, I've never paid, I've been lucky enough to not be in that situation. Would I consider being paid for sex? Damn!!!! right I would, but only as a last resort.. To put food on my table. But I think most mothers would.
Yes agree any mum would and over steeling off the shelves..Yes xx
 
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I've spoken with a few girls who are quite politically involved and campaign for sex workers rights, all of them current or former working girls. Some of the stories they've told me about the way they've been treated (by pimps and punters) are just horrific. On top of this they have to fight against prejudice from society and from the people in power, so they have my complete support.

However, would I pay for sex? Nah, I'm WAY too tight-fisted :rofl:
 
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I hear you :D
But indeed, a horrific 'trade' indeed, when under the control of nasty people. My heart goes out to a lot of these ladies and I genuinely wish I could help all of the ones who want that 'out'...
 
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it is a strange question have you ever paid for sex, define payment please? Have you ever paid for a prostitute i think is what you are really asking

Yes thats what I was asking :)

To be fair some people would be better off paying for a prostitute instead of a high maintenance girlfriend lol
 
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I dont think its wrong to pay for sex, If I was to I'd choose an escort rather than prostitute, its seems more classy in a weird way. Not that I've ever need to :) I've seen a lot of tv programmes about male escorts to, you can have a full boyfriend experience if you like, supposedly.
 
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I dont think its wrong to pay for sex, If I was to I'd choose an escort rather than prostitute, its seems more classy in a weird way. Not that I've ever need to :) I've seen a lot of tv programmes about male escorts to, you can have a full boyfriend experience if you like, supposedly.

What does that involve? Him sitting around watching football, scratching his balls and farting on a Saturday afternoon hehe.
 
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I dont think its wrong to pay for sex, If I was to I'd choose an escort rather than prostitute, its seems more classy in a weird way. Not that I've ever need to :) I've seen a lot of tv programmes about male escorts to, you can have a full boyfriend experience if you like, supposedly.
Escorts fur coat and no knickers :D no offence meant of course. :)
 
26 September 2015
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haha that just killed my fantasy then lol... it suppose to be the perfect boyfriend i think, treat you nice, take you out for dinner and dancing i suppose just doing what you want them to lol...
 
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I most certainly have no problem with paying or infact being paid.
I too have a couple of really good friends who are WG's (no freebies btw)
The ladies I know are all pretty cool, and lead a pretty affluent lifestyle.
 
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