Would (or have) you paid for sex?

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19 May 2015
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Well having never paid for sex I would never think any less of those that do .But have been propositioned in my younger days bit sex has never been about money for me its pure pleasure..
 
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Dragonflypussy69

I have paid for sex many times, and love it :) - Used to go to a Sauna on the Wirral, met up with the same gorgeous girl for almost 5 years, until it was closed down :( got to know her and her husband (who ran the place) very well, and it became a great relationship, very relaxing, as it was a nudist sauna. Recently met a couple off Twitter/Adultwork at a local hotel, been chatting to them for a few months before and when they visited Liverpool, we arranged a meeting and had a great MMF session and have the pics. Hoping for a repeat in the new year. :)
 
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27 April 2015
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hmmm, tricky one, to be direct NO we either of us would never pay for one on one (Or whatever) sex, as we have no need to !!, that said, we often on a meet, go halves on a hotel and a meal/drinks is that not indirectly the same thing ????
 
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I am curious, and seeing as this thread has been brought up....
Would you approve of escorts being on this site, or not?

What would your thoughts be with escorts on the site?
 
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Therapon

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You already have clubs/shops/events but they are aimed at the swingers/fetish scene. Not so sure about escorts however, as @Pearls noted in her thread "Swinging" there is a difference between a swingers/fetish lifestyle and a porn/sex site. If you were to add them I'd like it to be obvious that that is what they are and list them into their own section. I have no real objection but I can see a few others being against it - lets wait and see what the others think.
 
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27 April 2015
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I am curious, and seeing as this thread has been brought up....
Would you approve of escorts being on this site, or not?

What would your thoughts be with escorts on the site?
. Hmmmm tricky, they are a business,and not in the true spirit of swinging, and I feel while a possible addition to the site, it should be in a section that is accessible only, by people wanting them.
 
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ShhhAgonyAunt

I agree. They will try and be on he here under a false.umbrella with the intention of pulling punters away to other sites, equally they will also bring it people as the clubs do. An ex directory section would be the answer. Segregation but integration at the same time. At least we will know they are there, they won't need to hide and we can monitor the progress easier. Personally I say yes let them in as long as they declare themselves. Xx
I agree totally x
 
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ShhhAgonyAunt

Don't forget I'm here to offload problems, if needed and in total confidence !! !!!
 
Pearls

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I am sure most people on here will already know that I work as a prostitute and have done for almost as many years as I have been swinging, I do not class myself as an escort.

As well as selling sex I have also paid for sex, my first time was, on my own, 20 years ago with a girl in an Amsterdam RLD window, my husband was sent to sit in the pub and wait. The most recent was in a brothel in Spain as a couple. I have also had sex with a transexual prostitute. In all about 4 times. Why? sex is a thrill and it added to the fun and excitement.

My oh has also visited prostitutes and I am happy with him doing so as long as he does not overdo it, which I know he does not. There are times when he is away with friends and they go to brothels / clubs and it surprised me that a couple of the guys he was with did indulge.

Some clubs masquerade as swingers clubs / parties yet put on girls that they pay to ensure you have a good time, these are often openly advertised on some swingers sites, so is that right? Not really, but it goes on.

I do not think that prostitution should be advertised on swingers sites, there are sites that cater for that and it would just encourage even more males to join for this purpose rather than to meet swingers

And as some have said, yes many of us pay for sex, in various forms, we pay to go into clubs to have sexor we pay for a hotel room for sex. Last week we went to a club in Spain for me to have sex with many of the local guys, it cost us £40 in fuel to get there and back and £40 for a hotel room for the night. It was free to get into the club and we get free drinks, although the bar bill would probably only be about £20. The guys only paid €10 entry, which included a drink, sex with me was free and guaranteed.

Sarah x x x
Thanks for the reply Sarah and the honesty, respect from me xx