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Discussion in 'General Chats' started by Jaynerobert, 26 June 2019.

  1. Jaynerobert

    Jaynerobert PV Sprtr

    Good morning all,

    It’s Wednesday (hump day) and we’re on a looooong road trip up the country.

    As we’re really new to the site and brand new to the scene it’s the topic of a lot of conversation between us. We’re excited (but slightly nervous) to see where the journey takes us.

    So our question to you is if you could give us one piece of advice, serious or light hearted, what would it be?

    Looking forward to reading your replies and a big thank you for all of the likes, hellos and welcomes we’ve had. It’s good to be here. x
     
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  2. MP386

    MP386 PV Sprtr

    Everyone keeps telling me be patient good things cum :D to those who wait .... just take your time be comfortable with what your about to do and above all enjoy the experience...
     
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  3. Stew

    Stew PV Sprtr

    Don’t take the scene or yourselves too seriously !
    Ask questions lots of questions !
    Always a social meet first !
    No matter how you much you text chat or phone the attraction face to face is the key factor !
    Be honest and open ! No thanks is not taken personally in this world !
    Always agree that both of you have to want the social to progress further , taking one for the team leads to resentment later !
    Have fun push limits , you might enjoy it :whistle::tiphat:
     
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  4. Jaynerobert

    Jaynerobert PV Sprtr

    Thanks. Happy to be patient, both agreed that it’s a marathon rather than a sprint!
     
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  5. Jaynerobert

    Jaynerobert PV Sprtr

    Brilliant food for thought, especially ‘taking one for the team leads to resentment later’ - that’s got us thinking. Thanks for taking the time to reply. x
     
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  6. Stew

    Stew PV Sprtr

    Very welcome xx
     
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  7. MP386

    MP386 PV Sprtr

    Just to add from my experience and my experience only , the site is very socially oriented, but having said that I’ve never just done a social and maybe arranged something at a later date ....
    most meets have been the obvious interaction on line , meeting up , drinks and a chat maybe dinner ... then if all is ok somewhere a little more private ;) so far I’ve never had anyone run off screaming :D always a first time :rofl: part of swinging for me has been the excitement of that initial meet leading to having fun with people you have just met ....
    I know everyone has their own take on things but if it feels right it usually is .....
     
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  8. Lovernotfighter

    Lovernotfighter PV Sprtr

    First bit of advice is enjoy yourself swinging is above all else meant to be fun,
    Secondly don't eat yellow snow it isn't lemon favour.
     
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  9. Tiger

    Tiger PV Sprtr

    My bit of advice, if you’re interested in meeting other members take a look at the First Saturday Social thread http://bit.ly/ss-saturday-socials it’s a monthly social to bring like-minded people together
    :tiphat:
    Tiger xx
     
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  10. Jaynerobert

    Jaynerobert PV Sprtr

    We’ll definitely come along at some point. The next couple of months are probably out but maybe September. We’ll watch out for it being organised. x
     
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  11. T&C

    T&C PV Sprtr

    It’s fun...enjoy
    Set your rules/boundaries for you both...enjoy
    Meet people socially as you need to click on all sides....enjoy
    Don’t be afraid to ask...enjoy
    Everyone is nervous, shanking hands can add excitement :sneaky:...enjoy

    The road is long filled with new experiences, meeting new people, making friends, finding things about yourself...in the end it’s a lifestyle for fun....enjoy xxxx :0)) T
     
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