If only.... It will happen one day and by heck will the neighbours know! lol xxThen relax and just let it go
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MOTM
I must go to bed, Mr M will be getting up for work soon, time for a quick snuggle first though xx
Right.. erm, I have things to do over there >>
And will leave you sexy people to it:ninja:
Has to be done!
Was only joking of course...
Have an amazing evening and goodnight
x
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meet_the_fockers
I have that bloody song running through my head now...Then relax and just let it go
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meet_the_fockers
It must be frustrating when/if this happens.
I think some perhaps try to hard .. and focus on the "end goal" I guess its not the be all and end all.. Saying that i guess its alright for me to say.. i don't really have a problem in that department.
If i did i would hope i would feel able to talk to my partner.. saying that i would have no need to.. he would certainly notice if i didnt/had a problem orgasaming.
I think some perhaps try to hard .. and focus on the "end goal" I guess its not the be all and end all.. Saying that i guess its alright for me to say.. i don't really have a problem in that department.
If i did i would hope i would feel able to talk to my partner.. saying that i would have no need to.. he would certainly notice if i didnt/had a problem orgasaming.
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Which one? 'Relax' or 'Let It Go'?
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meet_the_fockers
Let it goooooooo let it goooooo that one.. although i was in ibiza when Relax came out.. throwing myself around the club to it... hmmmmWhich one? 'Relax' or 'Let It Go'?
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Must admit took me a long time have one, and it was with G. That was purely because he's the only person I have felt completely at ease with. I find it difficult to let go and must admit the house must be empty and the neighbours have got ear plugs when I do "let go"! 
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2hunters
On occasion I have found it very difficult to orgasm, I find usually it is because of stress at work or if I'm worried about something else, so for me it is definitely about being relaxed, I often find if i am struggling to orgasm just taking a break and maybe having a bit of a massage or something can relax me enough to get me over the edge.
If I am struggling I always talk to the person I am with, otherwise they could put pressure on themselves and feel like they aren't performing! and I wouldn't want that!
If I am struggling I always talk to the person I am with, otherwise they could put pressure on themselves and feel like they aren't performing! and I wouldn't want that!
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Akardyagain
I was briefly seeing a young women last year who'd never had an orgasm. She loved sex, she had cravings for it and felt vaguely more satisfied afterwards. And she tried everything, slept with men slept with women, tried a variety of toys a variety of different scenario's and kinks. Nothing worked!
I do wonder weather it's something psychological or something physical....or some combination of the two.
I do wonder weather it's something psychological or something physical....or some combination of the two.
Either or could be either. I'd suggest a medical mot for that young lady for a start and go from there.
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Akardyagain
I suggested that actually, I think she was too embarrassed by it all.
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peakcouple
In my 20s I had a girlfriend of a similar age who said she'd never had an orgasm. She had been in her home town swinging scene and had tried just about everything sexually, and while she enjoyed sex (enthusiastically, even) she just couldn't cum. Felt very sorry for her - we tried all sorts but it didn't work. Rose (who doesn't have that problem) often says she envies the way men can cum easily.
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Tigress
An understanding of the female anatomy is important here. Some women's clitorises are further from theirvaginas than others. We are all made differently. I'm always up front with people and let them know I've never cum through sex alone. Doesn't mean I don't love fucking though... An orgasm is lovely, but not vital for a good time... Xxx