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Marky191268
Ok following on from a chat I have had with a couple. What do ladies and couples like in a single guy. Someone who lacks confidence but is polite and courteous or someone is full on?
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Will be interesting to see where this goes @Marky191268 as I see mixed feedback from everyone here. And if I see it quite mixed, it must be very difficult for you as a single gent - as there doesn't seem to be clear definitive lines.
At least in my opinion. If I see mixed boundaries, then it must be harder for the single gents here as you never know which way to go, unless you just go with the flow and see how it pans out.
for us, be it chatting or meeting with Males or females, Confidence, yet polite and courteous every time, there is a fine line between full on pervy, and subtle flirting, both have their own place in chats/meets, and both are welcomed at the right time, so my advice is let the person you are chatting to lead things if your not sure, and respond accordingly xx
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You know what, I'm not going to give you a list of things I like in a guy. I'd say just be you but be a gentleman at the same time, if someone doesn't like your personality after that, then you're either not compatible or they don't know a good thing when they've come across it. Obviously you're a lovely man otherwise you wouldn't be allowed on here
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That is a very nice thing to sayYou know what, I'm not going to give you a list of things I like in a guy. I'd say just be you but be a gentleman at the same time, if someone doesn't like your personality after that, then you're either not compatible or they don't know a good thing when they've come across it. Obviously you're a lovely man otherwise you wouldn't be allowed on here
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Wouldn't say it if I didn't mean itThat is a very nice thing to say
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Marky191268
Does that mean we are compatibleWouldn't say it if I didn't mean it
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Probably not, my standards are way too high lolDoes that mean we are compatible
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I don't think it's even on purpose, I just never really click with people and having the same interests etc, isn't enough
We agree, there has to be a little of something that's not definable that creates the desires and the ideas to progress to something more, if it was easy and simple, it would be boring Lol !! xx
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Yeah exactly! I'm not quite sure what it is but I know it's something lol
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If we could bottle it, we would be millionaires overnight with sales of it to guys lol, xxx
Nothing wrong with standards and high expectations.
xTrue, complexity and inquisitiveness, curiosity and just figuring it all out is part of the challenge of the whole chase and catch thing..
Exactly.. There must be that something. We all know when it's there.. Has to be that something.
And once realized, with us, the rest is pretty much all on demand, and as required lol xxxxExactly.. There must be that something. We all know when it's there.. Has to be that something.
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I guess that's what makes the human mind and body so fascinating
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Hi Mark
You said to me in chat the other day and I quote "I was hoping you'd slide down my Harley" we were mid conversation and you just came out with that, not being rude, but if you think that appeals to ladies then you have it wrong.
Sorry Mark.. xSometimes I think you need to remember - swingers we are, but normal human beings. People first, swingers secondary.
You may find this straight to the point but I don't BS and go around corners and will tell it as it is, and we are after all trying to help you.
Education is key... I have tried many many times to help you and advise you. Good luck hun x
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Sorry but still confused, some couples like flirting and others don't, the flirting maybe naughty.
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Ommmm..
I think if they want you darling they will say so.
They wont want you if you strop n pout its not a good look.
Flirting is the nature of the site im afraid.. you have to read between the lines without wading in with size 9,s.
As i said most people when they wish to take things further.. will let you know. be it strong hints or otherwise.. unsure then message them.. politely though..
Im afraid come take a ride on my rocket.. wont have..
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I think if they want you darling they will say so.
They wont want you if you strop n pout its not a good look.
Flirting is the nature of the site im afraid.. you have to read between the lines without wading in with size 9,s.
As i said most people when they wish to take things further.. will let you know.
be it strong hints or otherwise.. unsure then message them.. politely though..Im afraid come take a ride on my rocket.. wont have..
The desired result. X