We've talked at length about the club scene , and we can see it's the easiest way by far to find a woman we both connect with ,iand judging from the welcome we've received on this site (not the other sites we're on I hasten to add) it would be exactly the same at a social . BUT. due to a number of reasons it's not something we feel is for us . It's not nerves ( trust me I walk where angels fear to tread on a daily basis
) and we know it's making what seems like an impossible task even harder but short of walking into a bar , seeing a girl we both like and plying her with alcohol till she submits to our desires ( or at least thinks I'm handsome ) then we can see the online thing as the only option .