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Ohhh your one of those so was I, for id say roughly 6yrs.Hi. We started out in this hobby last Jan, after a lousy 2014 during which I very nearly lost my "much"-better half (3 days on life-support after a 'routine' operation went wrong, followed by 10 days in ICU, 3 weeks in hospital, and 5 months off work).
We tried several sites - having no CLUE what the hell we were doing/what was out there - oddly enough (from the point of view of a few other posts we've come across, the BEST site we found ourselves on was fab -maybe we were just the lucky ones, or "the exception that proves the rule", but we came across VERY few people as we've seen described - and none whatsoever after the first couple of weeks - in fact we made some good friends there, who helped us find our feet - however - the only reason I mention that is I know neither of us would like to be considered as "one of those" by association, that's all.
Certainly the first contact on a totally different site, was a message reading "do you like cum in your mouth?" ... well, depends ... we're a couple, wifey does ... me ... not so much lol
We stopped swinging briefly, after (a) another 3 week hospital stay for wifey, and at the same time (b) finding out a relative had cancer - it wasn't just the swinging, more our sex-life - and life in general - came to a bit of a standstill.
Now though - we're 'back on the horse', and fortunately for us, found this site - and very quickly found a couple we seem to hit it off fantastically with - long may it continue.
Thanks for having us - sorry for the essay - and hope to meet a few of you over the next year or 5 ... hopefully in March at the VA gathering.
Bob
poles apart.. i left lots of freinds, freinds i met regulary to come here.. which i think in itself speaks volumes.. welcome here you are a real person/people not just a commodity.. your in the right place. And seem to be getting along brilliantly... xxx